Pro-social child worship, pro-social discipline: Tenets of good parenting practices

Many parents in the United States abuse their children, meaning most do. 94% of parents commit domestic battery against their children, and 70% of Americans approve of it. The reality is that the Bible commands that parents worship their children.

It says in Matthew 25:45-46 KJV:

Then shall he answer them on the right hand, saying, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye did it not unto the least of these, ye did it not unto me. But these shall go into eternal punishment: but the righteous into life eternal.

The "least of these" means any marginalized, vulnerable, or oppressed class, and surely included children in Christ's day, and in the Early Christian churches. It says in Colossians 3:20-21 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in all things, as is well-pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they become discouraged.

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to secure, vulnerable rest in the care, protection, and support of parents, being able to be one's true self as a parent, being able to tell or confide into parents anything, owing parents absolutely nothing in return, but nonetheless listening to parents, not out of fear but out of trust. This trust and obedience stems from Christian love for a child, meaning submission to the every vulnerable need of a child, knowing one cannot ever more understand what it is like to be a child, expecting absolutely nothing in return, with the child in place of God.

The Greek root word translated "provoke...to anger" and refers to the Greek root word translated "provoke...to anger" is ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) and literally translates to "stir up" and refers to the offenses in the Bible, meaning the torts and damages under the Mosaic Law, namely assault and battery laws, which did apply to children as well then. In the New Testament, this is summed up by the slightest of personal slights perceived by the child.

Children were seen as next to God in the Early Church, meaning the Law implied that your fellow man is an extension of God, with the least being the greatest in terms of veracity, with children being the most persecuted people in all of history, thus children being seen as an extension of God, and whatever you do to a child, you do for God. Children aren't literally God, but when you abuse a child, God takes it as personally as if it were the case. That is how the ancient Hebrew parents saw their children.

Parents were expected to be disciplined first, then the child. It says in Ephesians 6:4 KJV:

And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath, but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

The Greek root word translated "nurture" is παιδεία (Latin: paideia) and refers to the chastening of the Lord, meaning parents should be disciplined, chastened up, and centered in relation to their child, in a way that allows for listening to the upset and frustration of children. This is known as co-regulation. Regulate yourself next to your child, as if she were God issuing orders with said orders being what the child needs. The Greek root word translated "admonition" is νουθεσία (Latin: nouthesia) and refers to the admonition of the Lord, meaning merely the word "no" or its various variants, every once and a while to set a boundary. Text referring to provocations to anger, like in Col. 3:21, refer to the offenses, and whatever a child finds offensive on a visceral, sensory level.

Parenting was attachment-based, meaning obedience in the contextual biblical sense was closeness to parents, including freedom to share emotions, even in the form of tantrums and defiance, to parents, and parents listened and validated upset. The relationship is much like the relationship a therapist has with their client, meaning the humanistic type of therapist who listens to and validates the emotions of the child, like a sounding board, only giving advice when specifically requested unless absolutely lifesaving. Attachment parenting is not about forced closeness with a child, but forced self-discipline of parents, meaning God makes them by convicting their depraved hearts. It is a warm type of centeredness towards children, meaning you let them under your wing, and listen to their upsets instead of punishment.

The depraved and entitled parents will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them burn! Let them suffer eternal torment and languish in the lake of fire and brimstone, which is the second death! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!

Total submission to children (leading to total acceptance of children)

 Many parents insist that their children submit to them. This is the tradition in the United States, based on outdated biblical teachings. The Bible does not teach submission to parents, but the reverse - parents are to submit to children.

Every single adult is guilty merely for existing in relation to children, and is to fully submit to children as their enemy, seeking to be their friends, not knowing ever what it is like to be a child, knowing one's capacity and accepting culpability for it, leading to parents and similarly charged adults paying penance for abusing children by existing with power and control over children.

Parents are to be subject to the lawful and binding orders of their child, struck in reverent terror (GRK: ψοβός, phobos) in order to meet the every vulnerable need of children, expecting absolutely nothing in return from children, leading to good works for children, denoted by the Greek root word αγαπαο (Latin: agapao). It says in Colossians 6:1-4 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor thy father and mother, for this is the first commandment with promise; That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long upon the earth. And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath, but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

The Greek root word translated "nurture" is παιδεία (Latin: paideia) and refers to the chastening of the Lord in relation your child, with said child being extended by God for safeguarding, care, and protection (Matt. 25:31-46). It is allowing the Holy Spirit to chasten you up and center you in relation to a child, in a way that children can demand needs, and cry for them as well, with parents being commanded by God to listen to and validate their child's every need, loving their child, and setting an example for self-discipline and self-control in a child. The Greek root word translated "admonition" is νουθεσία (Latin: nouthesia) and refers to the admonition of the Lord, meaning setting limits and boundaries with a child, namely the word "no" or its various variants. The Greek root word translated "provoke...to wrath" is παροργιζο (Latin: parorgizo) and refers to the offenses, meaning torts and damages associated with the Eighth Commandment, including assault and battery under the Old Testament law, with children being protected from both battery and assault under Jewish law. This is summed up in the New Testament as the slightest of personal slights perceived by the child, stemming from entitled intent out of willfulness or recklessness.

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to surrender to parents, meaning secure, vulnerable rest under the care, support, and protection of parents, being able to be one's true self in relation to children, owing nothing in return to parents. but nonetheless listening to parents. This is in response to a specific type of submission to parents, known as pro-social pedophilia, meaning siphoning the exuberant energy of children to parents in a sheltering manner, like a pedophile would shelter children, but without the force or coercion of a predatory pedophile. Children can be themselves around parents, in a way that they seek to listen to and obey parents on their own, standing by their parents, attached at the hip even from afar as an adult. 

The ancient Jews were not authoritarian parents in the slightest, and bordered on child worship in how they treated their children, with them being seen as the ultimate extension of God for their small size. Parenting in ancient Hebrew culture was attachment-based in nature, with punishment only being for adults as a sentence for a crime under Jewish and Christian law then.

The depraved and entitled parents will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them burn and languish in the lake of fire and burning sulfur, suffering the second death prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand! 

Why the pedophiles aren't going to Hell

 A colleague of mine has a troubling belief that I am going to Hell for a disorder that I have. Hell can be a very scary concept. I relish in it sometimes with my abuser as well, and also char myself with it. The pedophiles are not going to Hell, at least in the United States.

It says in Revelation 21:8 KJV:

But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and all liars, shall have their fate in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone, which is the second death.

The Greek root word translated "whoremonger" is πορνεία (Latin: porneia) and refers to not pedophilia itself, but all sexual offenses under the Mosaic Law, and only when the act is defended as a "right". Fornication, from a children's rights perspective, is intent to sexually use or objectify a child, as perceived by the child and/or a parent or guardian of said child. 

A trial for a fornicator allows for a child to sense the intent of a sexually entitled adult, and set limits, and the more the adult refuses to abstain, the more guilty they appear to the parent, and anyone else around.

Pedophilia is simply the thought processes that could lead to this form of entitlement, if left unchecked. I feel it on the surface, like noticing thoughts fly by, and enjoying them spray tan the child. 

I am not nervous at all around children, which is δειλός (Latin: deilos) or guilty fear. The Greek root word denoting I how I fear children is ψοβός (Latin: phobos) and refers to a very different, more convicting type of fear. Would you respect a child saying "STOP!" with a stophand extended towards you, but in a shock and awe type of way that simply prompted you to stop what you are doing. No fear to the level of running away or hiding your face, unless you need that sort of fear to learn your lesson. It is reverent fear, meaning if a child ordered me to leave them alone, I'd feel compelled to, and ashamed and embarrassed about my behavior. But, when you feel pain like that, you learn from it, and don't do it again. Yes, it could be guilty fear at the time, yet not at all if you draw from it reason not to repeat the same mistake again. It is being set straight as a child.

By my religious standard, presumably none of them are. Offenders exist amidst the crowd of non-offenders, and it's like whack a mole, meaning send the individual offender down and spare the rest, for they are trying their best to be good adults towards children. Offenses against children that a pedophile could be liable for is sexual/behavioral neglect or adult sexual entitlement. Most pedophilia is not entitlement, meaning yearning or wanting to the point of seeking to impose wants, but is fleeting, oftentimes intrusive thoughts for the person with the mental illness. As long as it stays on the thought level, I don't care. If you are the type of guy to be agoraphobic or semi-agoraphobic to avoid children, yet like to fantasize about children, and take pro-child stances outwardly, you are probably one of the safest people to be around children. Some of us at children's rights pedophiles have to be flawed and litigious like the stereotype to be able to stomach all of the abuse going on. Most at VirPed would not last here, because most pedophiles, meaning the actual clinical pedophiles, are highly sensitive to the pain of children, and much of the knowledge here is too graphic for them. I don't think they are going to Hell. I associate pedophilia, apart from autism, with agoraphobia and suicide, meaning they are more of a danger to themselves than any child. It is ordinary entitled parents who are doing the abusing. Pedophiles are actually less likely to abuse children than the average adult.

I, according to my beliefs, believe all adults, by default in God's eyes, are marked for deletion, and will be tormented in eternal descending Hell-fire, as we live in an evil world that hates children, with adults keeping children down like a compress. A pedophile can be part of that hatred of children, in which case their mental health label is irrelevant, and should not be associated with the offender in news articles. Most pedophiles believe in youth rights, as VirPed is a youth rights organization - we admit our privilege, with most members doing it quietly. I myself loudly announce it in exemplary format, but quietly admit privilege in my personal life towards children, with a quiet example. Pedophiles are not going to Hell, as when you can admit that to me, that shows that you have nothing to hide in terms of abuse, as no abuser would come forward in tears because they are afraid of becoming one.

Why pedophiles do have trauma

 Many believe pedophiles have no trauma. Ignorant purity preachers and parent lobbyists say they never were abused, and needed some abuse, because they claim abuse, but since they do abuse, all of that is false. That doesn't add up to me, to start out with, because not all abuse is sexual in nature. There is more than one way to mess up a child. Pedophiles are, in fact, the most sensitive people to trauma.

Pedophilia goes in hand with a very toxic form of sexual level trauma - corporal punishment existence trauma. "Level" refers to the fact that spanking wasn't seen as a sex act, yet it was nonetheless at a pure visceral level, all the while knowing your parent did not have that intent, so no prosecution could ever take place under the laws of state laws 50 states. The conclusion you come to is that you don't want that sort of think to exist, period, end of sentence. Think angry fantasies of police coming down from the hills, like a caravan, and arresting every parent marked guilty from overhead. 

We enjoy scaring parents with our trauma. A component of my trauma is pro-social evil/nihilism, meaning that's how you see pro-spanking parents many times - test kits, or else merely dummies or objects of your wrath. You know you should see parents as human, which you do objectively, but see them them as evil, wicked parents deserving of traumatic sadism. You just enjoy the thought of hurting them, and the horror and shock of it is the most fun. It is an antisocial trauma, and you know it, so you start out turning it on yourself as a form of caregiver self-destruct instinct.

There is a children's rights debate between the United States children's rights movement and those in Europe. European movements take a hard stance against spanking and corporal punishment, and this is why. In most of Europe, anti-spanking laws are in place, and even where there are no laws, children are treated better than in the United States.

Treatment is about positioning of anger. When it is positioned on the surface, it is usually a frozen type of anxiety, where you are afraid to die but afraid to live with that sort of thing going on. You then grow up, and hide that anger, otherwise being the patient, rational guy that never gets mad. Your trauma is an anti-parent anger packet that you delve into, and dwell in, in order to enjoy your trauma, and the fantasy of it being inflicted on your abuser. 

What happens is that a pedophile is an open box in terms of trauma, as a child, meaning instead of repressing it, the mind just fills with clutter about your trauma, until you become a very angry, miserable, or otherwise simply negative person. There is no justice, so you hate parents at a low, seething level, seeing evil behind even suburban parents with a polished facade. That's why I wanted to work for children's services overseas in Iceland - to avenge my trauma.

I am a pro-social evil advocate, dear parents, and an advocate. Call me the scum of the earth, and I agree - I was spanked, and I didn't turn out okay. I turned out messed up. Pedophiles do have trauma, but it is too obvious for their own good. It is a gaslighting trauma, meaning a burning rag or Molotov cocktail to be thrown on your opponents in the spanking debate. I simply flash it sometimes to get my point across. It is doing harm to the other person, and thus is evil, but sometimes, evil acts can lead to good works.

Let the pro-spanking parents BURN!

Why parents are not to get angry with their child

Many parents demand their parental right to get angry with their child, meaning "every parent gets angry with their children sometime". Yes, parents get angry, and it is sin nonetheless. To be clear, I do not get angry at children, as my pedophilia causes my case of autism to have the anger emotion missing for children. The most angry I can get with them is saying "no", meaning I get angry around the child. Most adults aren't like me, and get angry towards the child.

It says in Matthew 5:21-22 KJV: 

Ye have said that it was said of old time, Thou shalt not kill, and whosoever shall kill shall be in danger of the judgment: But I say unto you, that whosoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment: and whosoever shall say to his brother, Raca, shall be in danger of the council: That whosoever shall say, thou fool, shall be in danger of hell fire.

 One might argue that "without a cause" means a disobedient child is a good reason to be angry. The reality is that anger should be based on righteous judgment, and children are exempt and indemnified under the Law. Matthew 5 is about summing up the Law, then taking it further or expanding on existing law. Under the Law, children could not be judged for any crime that they committed, with the parents being held responsible. Thus, there is no cause for any anger at children.

The flipside of this is shown in Colossians 3:20-21 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in all things, as is well-pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they become discouraged.

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to secure, vulnerable rest prompted by the care and protection of children, leading to children being able to say anything to parents, being themselves, and having no fear of punishment or reprisal from parents, owing nothing in return to parents, but listening to parents nonetheless, out of gratitude and thanksgiving for having such kind, gentle parents. The Greek root word translated "provoke...to anger" is ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) and refers to the offenses in the Bible, with "provocation to anger" meaning harsh treatment of a child leading to rebellion in a child, in which the parent was seen as culpable under Jewish law, not the child.

Getting angry with children was discouraged, at best, under Christian law then, meaning fits of anger in general were illegal, including against children, as parenting then was attachment-based. Fits of anger towards children are to be restrained, meaning do the opposite of what you want to do to a child, rephrase your words in a more polite way. or else take a time-out. Parent anger is to be restrained, until it does not exist virtually, instead channeled to another mode of expression. Angry energy can be used to, perhaps, get things done around the house. When you aren't an angry parent, you won't have an angry child, and the child will then willfully submit to you.

The depraved and entitled parents who provoke children to anger will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them BURN!  Let them SUFFER forever and ever! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!

BERKS CHILDREN'S RIGHTS BLOTTER: Incident at Arby's

 A parent was spotted voicing entitled speech to a child approx. 4yo in an Arby's in Exeter Township. The father has a large and overbearing build, and several tattoos.

This was a minor incident, and we make a scene nonetheless to prove WE have the initiative to judge alongside a child, and stand up on their behalf, and YOU SHALL NOT PROVOKE THE CHILD TO ANGER.

If you are the parent being described, know that I know nothing about you apart from what you did, and that's all I need to know about you. Pro-social stealth, pro-social spy, pro-social surveillance. I am the surveillance camera for the children, seeing all evil and depravity directed towards them in public.

Strictness: Why parents need to be strict with themselves (and spare children)

American parenting values strictness, and gentle parents of the progressive sort abhor even the mention of strictness. I might be permissive in another realm, so I get it. However, conservatism is about strictness and discipline, but in terms of self-control for adults. Most conservatives simply assume children cannot control themselves, and need to be control through some external force. The truth is that children can control themselves.

God's order of the family is stated in Ephesians 6:1-4 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, as this is right. Honor thy father and mother, as this is the first commandment with promise; That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live upon the earth. And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath, but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

The Greek root word "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to secure, vulnerable rest in the care, support, and protection of parents, with children being able to tell parents anything, or confide anything into parents, with children feeling safe to be themselves in relation to parents, owing nothing to parents, yet listening to parents nonetheless, feeling safe and secure in terms of attachment enough to listen to parental instruction.

The Greek root word translated "nurture" is παιδεία (Latin: paideia) and refers to non-entitled discipline, self-control, and centering of parental control drives in relation to children, both physical and sexual. This sort of self-control in a parent is one to encourage pro-social rebellion, meaning parents allow for their children to challenge them, even harshly and perhaps aggressively as a pro-social punching bag, but saying "not everyone is going to understand, but I'm here to listen". This is called co-regulation, meaning the child centers themselves by being listened to and validated by a centered, disciplined parent. This is known as the chastening of the Lord, meaning God's Loving Instruction, usually by example but also by pamphlet. The Greek root word translated "admonition" is νουθεσία (Latin: nouthesia) and refers to God's Loving Reproof, meaning the word "no" or its various variants, meaning setting limits and boundaries with a child without threat of punishment or control. The Greek root word translated "provoke...to wrath" is παροργιζο (Latin: parorgizo) and refers to the offenses in the Bible, meaning the torts and damages  such as assault and battery against a child, and is summed up after Christ as the slightest of personal slights perceived by a child, by way of controlling, demanding, or punitive behavior.

Attachment parenting was the norm in ancient Jewish culture, with children co-sleeping next to mothers, and being held on the back of their mothers, with closeness to parents lasting until a late age. Punishment was illegal for a child under any circumstance, and only legal as a sentence for crime for a legal adult. Children were allowed to rebel in relation to parents, meaning cry, scream, pout, and all of the behaviors children use to get their needs by going against the grain of their parents' instruction, in righteous mode. Generally, children have needs when they have big feelings like that  They may just want attention, so give it to them. This is something the parents in the Bible understood.

The idea is for parents to be strict with themselves, and then model such behavior by example to their children. This may come with some encouragement from parents, and then you can expect children, as they get older, to be strict with themselves on their own. This means be disciplined yourself, allow your child to come to you about anything that is on their mind, and this should cushion them to be self-disciplined and controlled themselves, on a traditional basis.

The depraved and entitled parents will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them burn! Let them suffer the second death prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!