Most parents fear their child being sexually abused by pedophiles. This is a common fear that parents have for their child. However, most parents never bank on their child being a pedophile. But, the fact of the matter is that a child can be diagnosed with pedophilia as young as age 16, and can be identified as a pedophile even earlier. Pedophilia is a very real mental illness involving a genetic sexual preference for children under age 14.
A pedophile is not necessarily a sexual abuser of children. A pedophile instead is an individual with a sexual preference for children under age 14. Pedophilia is not a narcissistic disorder, but instead involves arrested sexual development in terms of age-oriented sexual preferences, meaning pedophilia itself is a developmental disorder in terms of sexual predisposition. In most cases, pedophilia is secondary to a diagnosis of moderate-severe autism spectrum disorder. The pedophile is usually fully aware of their sexual predisposition towards children by their mid-teens, when pedophilic children grow up despite their attraction figures not growing up with the pedophile. Autism involves a narrow focus on a specific topic. Pedophilia is usually a form of autism involving a narrow focus on children. Most pedophilic teenagers have a child-centered form of autism where they get along great with much younger children. When an adult male with autism can easily nurture children, think pedophile, but the right kind.
Most people think that the hysteria against pedophiles started with trauma survivors. However, attraction to children was a concept long before the word "pedophile" was coined by Richard von Krafft-Ebing in the 1800s. Attraction to children was seen in the Early Church as a flaw that possibly could be used for good. A pedophile was oftentimes appointed church elder in the Early Church, and was charged with the role of giving parenting advice. However, when Rome took over the Western Church, Pope Constantine issued an order stating that when an adult admitted to sexual attraction to children, that "all must disperse" from both the adult attracted to children and all those who defended them. The word "pedophile" was intended as a way for someone with sexual attractions to children to be given a break. The word, however, was stolen again by "the pedophiles", meaning the Uncle Orange. However, the Uncle Orange was never representative of most pedophiles. Most pedophiles are anti-contact, in a way that they could never even admit to their condition without being lumped in with the Uncle Orange. Ultimately, the Uncle Orange overspoke most pedophiles, with knowledge of anti-contact pedophiles being kept among psychiatrists serving pedophiles. Trauma survivors feigned an opposition towards pedophiles, while realing an opposition to the Uncle Orange. They wanted a specific profile of pedophile to give them hope - the "little tykes" type.
The main profile of pedophile is the profile of "little tykes". A "little tykes" pedophile has a mental disability, in most cases in the form of moderate-severe autism spectrum disorder. A "little tykes" pedophile relates to children on their level, not a "Big/little" fashion. Most "little tykes" pedophiles have no capacity for anger at a child.
Pedophiles have the same needs as an ordinary traumatic. Just like with trauma, a pedophile has a burden to unload onto a therapist. Thus, if your child discloses pedophilia to you, you should listen to them reassuringly. As with many cases of mental illness, in pedophiles, listening is half the battle.
It is a myth that being a pedophile is a sin. The Greek root word translated "fornication" in the Bible is πορνεία (Latin: porneia) and refers here to anything outside of proper channels as understood then. The proper channels of sexual behavior then were sex with your wife, or else righteous masturbation without pornography. A pedophile can easily just masturbate to sexual thoughts of children, without any pornography of such. Most men in the Early Church left time in their masturbation habits for fantasies of minor children. A pedophile was treated in the Early Church as someone with a flaw, but with that flaw in and of itself not being a moral crime.
Most pedophiles have a form of sexual shaming trauma from parents. Most pedophiles do not have parent jealousy, but instead have parent trauma from being sexually shamed by parents. Usually, these parents are Christian parents. Most parents of pedophilic children keep down the topic. I myself currently am well-adjusted as a pedophile, and that is because I have a mother and a therapist to talk over my sexual desires towards children with, with my mother being my accountability partner. I want all pedophiles to have the support that I have.
If you think your child is a pedophile, the idea is to prepare a nest for the pedophile to rest in, inviting a pedophile disclosure. The idea is to say to them ahead of time, "if you ever say you are a pedophile, I will still love you". When they disclose that they are a pedophile, listen and validate their anguish. They aren't being manipulative. They are afraid out of their mind. Most pedophiles hate themselves, and hate themselves because they find themselves attracted to children, yet don't want to sexually abuse a child. That makes them a good person, not a bad person, and they need to know that they are a good person.
A pedophile is basically the man that mothers. Most pedophilic men in particular have a high nurturant drive in relation to children. I myself am a pedophile, and I dote on other people's children, including even babies. I also notice the attractiveness of young girls once they get to be of a certain age. I don't have driven attractions to children, but instead simply have connotational attractions to children, meaning that the young girl stands out in her attractiveness. That is because my mother allows for me to have "private time". I have a low sex drive as of late, but I do have a high drive to nurture a child.
The depraved and entitled parents who sexually shame their pedophilic children will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into torrents of Hell-fire prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent!
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