Adult attraction to children: Individual responsibility for adults attracted to children

Many people and organizations support the concept of collective responsibility. This means that most adults think that pedophiles are the sole threat to children. However, we all as adults pose some risk of sexually abusing a child. Thus, we all are responsible for our sexual behavior in relation to children. This sort of child protection is called individual responsibility. 

Every single adult is capable of child sexual abuse under the right/wrong conditions. Child sexual abuse is usually a crime of opportunity, not a career offense. Sexual abuse of children usually involves a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to prey on an innocent child. Most adults who sexually abuse children have a secondary attraction to children that they can easily keep repressed, until the repressed desires come out sideways onto a child victim, like a ton of bricks. Most sexual abusers of children are non-pedophiles, with pedophiles being too aware of their desires to repress them fully. 

Most child sexual abuse happens when the offender has a "heartache" for a child, meaning sexual lusts for children to the point of physical pain. This happens when adults do not take care of their sexual desires towards children. The idea is to face those desires head on, and righteously masturbate to thoughts of the first child that comes to mind. With most men, this leads them to father-daughter sexual fantasies. That is okay, because then those needs are quenched, and thus there is no need to go any further with a child.

3 out of 4 pedophiles have never sexually abused a child. Most pedophiles who do rape or sexually assault a child do so for different reasons than most abusers. Most pedophiles simply are curious about the bodies of children, and want to see more when children dress in a showy fashion. Most pedophiles who do rape children in particular are severely autistic, and don't mean any harm by their behavior. Most pedophilic sexual abuse comes in the form of sexual harassment, meaning they have an autistic fixation on a specific child that is topical in nature. Usually, they talk all the time about their amorous fixation on a specific child. I myself abused a child by way of sexual harassment, namely street harassment. 

A pedophile is not an anger packet directed towards a child. A pedophile is a human being with a sexual preference for children under age 14. Most pedophiles have a form of immature autism where their core special interests center around children. Pedophilia is not caused by childhood sexual abuse, even in the case of a woman sexually abusing a child. Pedophilia is a genetic disorder that is associated with autism, and involves arrested sexual development. If you see a grown man with autism get along just fine with children, think pedophile, but the right kind. 

It s a myth that pedophilia is a sin, or that pedophilia holds men in particular to an impossible standard in terms of salvation. The Greek root word translated "fornication" is πορνεία (Latin: porneia) and refers here to any sexual relations outside of a Christian marriage between one adult man and one adult woman, with that marriage being equal in nature. All a man is allowed is sex with his wife, or else righteous masturbation without pornography. Pedophilia in and of itself is allowed if the pedophile masturbates to thoughts other than pornography of children in particular. The ancients in the Bible did have a concept of pedophilia, and admission of pedophilia was seen as a request for help in managing the sexual desires. Pedophiles often took leadership roles in the Early Church, and were made responsible for giving parenting advice. All a pedophilic adult has to do is masturbate, and then they can control their desires enough to be a saved Christian. I myself lack entitlement as a Christian, and yet I am a pedophile. I might well have hit perfection, but I don't say. If I didn't allow myself righteous masturbation to thoughts of children, I might be in prison right now. Masturbation does not lead to more masturbation if done without pornography - it leads to less need for masturbation.  Pornography is the problem, not masturbation. Masturbation lowers the sex drive when done without pornography. I have a low sex drive, and that is because I masturbate more than I need to. 

The hysteria surrounding adult attraction to children did not start with trauma survivors, contrary to popular belief. It all started with Pope Constantine issuing a decree that anyone who admits to sexual attraction to children should have all friends and family disperse. Even today, the Roman Catholic Church prohibits both masturbation and pornography, with the Roman Catholic Church being amongst the first of Christian denominations to ban masturbation entirely. Most Roman Catholic priests are at high risk for sexually abusing a child, and that is because they have nowhere else to go with their sex drive. The trauma survivors did advocate against pedophiles, but only in order to get the right kind of opposition. For example, the criterion of pedophiles "being immune to trauma" was a fabrication intended for a pedophile to point out. All survivors want is a pedophile to admit to trauma, and prove them wrong on the belief that pedophiles are immune to trauma. 

All pornography is banned in the Bible, meaning whenever it is on your possession. Most of the sex laws today are laws I oppose because they single out pedophiles. But, I oppose ALL pornography, and support a blanket ban on all pornography. In the Early Church, all pornography was prohibited as contraband. Masturbation was allowed, but only without pornography of any kind. Pornography was defined then as any depiction with intent to arouse others, meaning any written or pictorial depiction intended as pornography. 

The key part of keeping your child safe from sexual predators is to not become one yourself. Most every adult has some sexual attraction to children under age 18. Usually, fathers have a sexual attraction to their daughters, and also the daughter has an attraction to her father in return when she is prepubescent. The idea is to masturbate to sexual thoughts of your daughter as a father. The sexual dynamic in a household comes in the form of a criss-cross tipped on its side, with fathers and daughters being sexually attracted to each other in an unrequited way, and with sons being sexually attracted to mothers as a complete dead end. Daughters in particular do not actively seek out sex with fathers, but instead masturbate to thoughts of him.

The depraved and decadent, defiled adults who sexually abuse children will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into torrents of Hell-fire prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent!