Adult attraction to children: Individual responsibility for adults attracted to children

Many parents think that only some adults are capable of sexually abusing children, and that they aren't capable. Most adults think only a few people are capable of child sexual abuse, namely pedophiles. Most adults don't want to take responsibility for their part in the child sexual abuse epidemic. The fact of the matter is that all adults are responsible for the sexual abuse epidemic haunting children.

Every single adult is culpable merely for existing in relation to children, as every single adult is capable of child sexual abuse under the right/wrong conditions. Most adults never will sexually abuse a child, but all adults presumably will be tempted to sexually abuse children, and a few of them actually will. The core of the sexual abusers of children have adult sexual entitlement, not pedophilia. Pedophilia is a primary or exclusive sexual preference for children under age 14, in most cases associated genetically with autism or related developmental disorders. Most sexual abusers are not pedophiles, but simply adults who chose to oppress children with their sexual wrath.

What can adults do to avoid sexually abusing children? The Greek root word denoting lust is έπιθυμέω (Latin: epithumeo) and refers not to any sexual desire, but to sexual entitlement. Sexual entitlement is defined as, officially speaking, sexual want, to the point of sexually motivated approach. The first steps leading up to the attack are what is known as sexual entitlement. Trying to corner a child using grooming tactics can be an example of adult sexual entitlement. When it is a parent approaching a child for sexual or flirtatious reasons, it is parent sexual entitlement. Parent sexual entitlement is the most serious form of entitlement facing children today. The only way out of the approach is righteous masturbation, meaning masturbating to sexual thoughts of children in their own imagination, meaning without pornography of any kind. 

The way most child sexual abuse happens is the offender represses their sexual thoughts to children, meaning they try to deny it, and then they repress it. Then, they end up being alone with a child that they are attracted to, and the attraction comes out sideways onto a child, like a ton of bricks. This predicament can happen to any adult who isn't prepared beforehand. The way to prepare beforehand is to masturbate to sexual thoughts of children. 

Most child sexual abuse is committed by a parent, not a pedophile. The evolutionary sexual dynamics in a family home go like a criss-cross. Fathers and daughters are attracted to each other, in a mutually unrequited way, and sons are attracted to their mothers like a dead end. Usually, child sexual abuse goes along these lines, as usually, it happens in a home setting, not a school or anywhere where children congregate. Fathers who rape or sexually assault their daughters like to ignore their sexual side towards their children, until they can no longer, and then it spills out onto the child, like a ton of bricks coming out of nowhere.

Pedophilic sexual abuse is actually rare. When a pedophile does sexually abuse a child, they do so on the surface, with the abuser being known as an obvious abuser. Usually, sexual offenses such as following a child home from school is what most sexual offenders who are pedophiles do. Most pedophilic sexual offenders are fixated on a specific child, in the most autistic of ways, and impose that crush onto the child. I myself do fit the profile of an obvious abuser, meaning I have followed young girls around a pool deck, as a form of flirting, waving at them with intent to flirt. If one of the young girls did invite me to their home, I would have snuggled with them with intent to romance them. 

The most prolific of sexual abusers are not pedophiles, but instead serial rapists. Usually, they have victims who are not children, meaning usually a string of adult victims. Most pedophiles do not have the social skills to pull off a string of rapes. Most pedophiles who rape a child do it only once, and then the child confronts them for it. Most pedophilic offenders simply don't know the boundaries, due to being socially inept. Most pedophiles specialize their intelligence around children, with their sexual drive reflecting their specialty of intelligence. I can barely do any math, but I can tell you all about gentle parenting. 

The hysteria about pedophiles has gotten us nowhere in terms of child protection. Nobody wants to take personal responsibility for the sexual abuse of children, and everyone is pointing the finger at someone else. Why can't more adults do what I do - and blame themselves for the sexual abuse epidemic. We all as adults have let children down, and so all of us should atone just for our adult existence. All adults are depraved and decadent sinners deserving of nothing but DEATH and PUNISHMENT merely for existing in relation to children and the God that protects them. Most actual pedophiles are ahead of the game, and feel about sexual abuse much like an ordinary member of society would. It is the rest of adult society that has to atone in relation to children. Most rapes or sexual assaults committed against children are an adult's choice to oppress children using sexual violence. Since all adults are capable, all adults need to atone for their risk for children, and their very existence. Our very existence as adults is marred by a peacekeeping past. 

Most pedophiles are the last people to sexually abuse a child. That is because they can't hide from themselves the fact that they are sexually attracted to children. Most pedophiles are always aware of their sexual attraction to children, whereas most adult attraction to children is on the dormant level, with the ordinary adult being attracted to the opposite sex. Most pedophiles are primarily or exclusively attracted to children, with their peak age being under age 14. Most pedophilia comes in the form of intrusive thoughts, where the pedophile is attracted to children at every level, and wants out of that rut. But, since there is no other way out, they need to accept their sexuality through righteous masturbation. Most sexual abusers ignore their sexual thoughts for children, until it comes out suddenly in the form of the attraction coming out sideways, like a ton of bricks. 

The depraved and decadent, defiled adults who rape and sexually assault children will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into torrents of Hell-fire prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent!