Many parents have a fear of their child being abused by child predators. However, most parents don't even entertain the thought of their child being a pedophile. Most parents think that pedophilia is something a "dirty old man" has. However, pedophilia is a valid mental health label. Most pedophiles can be identified by the late teens - meaning while they are still children themselves. What should a parent do then? The disorder is actually not a big issue at all, meaning it is among the most treatable of all mental health disorders.
What is pedophilia? A pedophile is not an anger packet lodged in the brain of an individual. A pedophile is a human being who has a sexual preference for children under age 14. Most pedophilia exists in the context of immature autism, meaning that pedophiles have a specialty in children in terms of knowledge and social preference. If you see a teenager with autism just get along with much younger children, think pedophile. Usually, the pedophile acts as a defense attorney on behalf of younger relatives when they first show themselves to the world.
Being a pedophile is not a sin, meaning pedophilia in and of itself is not a moral crime. In the Early Church, pedophiles could admit to sexual attraction to children, usually when in need of help. It was not seen as shameful to admit. It was seen instead as a flaw to be used for good. Anyone with a sexual attraction to children could admit to pedophilia whenever they needed to, with the other person being a shoulder to lean on..
The hysteria surrounding pedophiles and pedophilia did not start with trauma survivors. The hysteria started with Pope Constantine issuing an ex cathedra statement banning the admission of sexual attraction to children, meaning "all friends disperse" when attraction to children was admitted. Also, anyone who defended a pedophile was lumped in with pedophiles, and was shunned as well. The pedophile hysteria was simply catered to by trauma survivors. However, they were trying to end the hysteria by way of smoke signals to oppose key false statements that they made about pedophiles and pedophilia.
Pedophiles had to live by certain rules in the Early Church in order to be accepted. The Greek root word denoting sexual sin is πορνεία (Latin: porneia) and refers not to mere sexual attractions, but to the general rule then that sexual relations was only allowed within the context of a Christian marriage. When a wife wasn't around, most adults masturbated to sexual thoughts, including thoughts of children. A man then had two acceptable sexual outlets - his wife and his own imagination. Masturbation without pornography was seen then as a purity ritual, meaning where you went instead of sexual relations outside of marriage. Righteous masturbation is what was practiced by biblical pedophiles, meaning they masturbated to sexual thoughts of children without pornography. It is a myth that the word πορνεία alone bans pedophilic fantasy.
1 out of 4 pedophiles are guilty of child sexual abuse. Usually, this offense is committed out of bodily curiosity. That is why a pedophilic child should be given body positivity books to read and explore. I myself am a sex offender in past-tense, and I was curious about the children that I targeted, in terms of their bodily attributes. I myself mainly committed street harassment, but the curiosity about the child form was still there. I did freshen up my cousin on the side of her budding breast in my grandparents' attic. Most pedophiles who do sexually abuse a child, even when through rape, mean well in the context of their offenses.
Most child sexual abuse is not committed by pedophiles. Most sexual offenses against children come to the perpetrator in the form of a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. Usually, his sex drive is not well cared for, and usually, he is left alone with a child. Most sex offenders hold back their sexual attraction to children until they can no longer, in which case it comes out onto the child like a ton of bricks. Your average child sex offender is not a pedophile, but instead are a plain old rapist. Many times, career abusers have many adult victims - usually women - before they dip down to child victims.
Pedophilic disorder is the full textbook name for when pedophilia is clearly a mental disorder. In most cases, pedophiles hate themselves to the core, because they don't want to hurt a child. They think that they would sexually abuse a child, just for having a sexual preference for young children. That makes most pedophiles good people, not bad people. Most pedophiles are not a danger to children, with them, if anything, being a danger to themselves. Many pedophiles have a suicide plan for if they are found out. Once the pedophile accepts themselves, meaning learns to like their fantasies, their disorder is in remission. Some of us as pedophiles lacked the understanding of proper boundaries, which is another form of pedophilic disorder. Whenever pedophilia interferes with your life, or is acted upon, it is a mental illness. If you feel the need to seek out a therapist, you are mentally ill as a pedophile. The label of pedophilic disorder itself is only for billing purposes, and other than that, it is just a label to help clinicians understand the special needs of an individual. It should not be shameful to admit to mental health disorders of any kind, including pedophilia.
Most pedophilia takes place in individuals with a moderate-severe case of autism. I myself am a pedophile with moderate autism. I can remember all the different facts about children, but I can't even be organized enough to make it through college. I have an IQ of 109, meaning I have a low average IQ. I can be verbose, but the specialty of my knowledge is in children. I am an ambivert, meaning I have no in-person friends, but would prefer to have a child as my friend. Apart from that, I am happy to be alone. Socializing is too much work for me, apart from a distant relationship such as on the Internet. But, if I was left with a child, I think I would know what to do. I have many acquaintances out and about, meaning waitresses remember me, but I prefer to keep my social interactions at that sort of distance.
A pedophile can be diagnosed with the label as young as age 16, and can be identified even earlier. The pedophile grows up as a child into adulthood, but their sexual development stays arrested in time, in terms of age-oriented sexual preferences.
The depraved and entitled parents who sexually shame their pedophilic child will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into torrents of Hell-fire prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent!
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