Wednesday, April 7, 2021

Children don't lie - Why you can accuse me of anything (as long as you have the facts straight)

 Many parents and adults don't like getting accused of child abuse. It is the whole reason why pro-spanking parents oppose a ban on spanking, apart from general entitlement against their children - they don't want to get caught. So, accuse me of anything, and I'll answer to the court, because I have nothing to hide, so I have nothing to worry about. I'm not afraid to use that nothingness to frame any adult who abuses a child...I'm an open book.

I presume innocence in all adults, beyond a reasonable doubt, like a circular courtroom, admitting privilege in a circular manner. However, children don't lie. I have been accused by a child, in a lighter way than I deserved. She reported straight to me, told me to "stop looking that way", and then I was off - I couldn't stand being in my own skin, scaring her like that. She shouldn't be made to feel guilty for being uncomfortable. Neither should any child in relation to me.

Many say this is heroic? No, all adults should take my stance, and so I rise up all the non-entitled attitudes of adults, by way of line example. I'm not afraid to go to jail, because I know I have done nothing warranting it. So a child wants me charged with harassment? It is $300, but perhaps it should be a tougher penalty, I don't know.

We are all, for the most part, former abusers here at children's rights. We just don't identify as such. Many here have struck children, and punished them, and others, like me, kicked the habit of being permissive. I still hate the word "no" but have to use it when around children, which is never because I pose a risk in that regard.

Sadly, it takes a pedophile, most of the time, for an adult to be that honest with themselves, and that disciplined in relation to children. I'm not afraid of being accused. PA ChildLine is 1-800-932-0313. No adult likes being accused, but maybe I deserve it. Try my best to avoid accusation - by choosing not to abuse children, and avoiding conflicts that could lead to false accusation from parents. I am an introverted person, and am pretty socially avoidant, so no problem. I trust parents when they don't trust me. Adult pride should not exist. Only adult shame, since adults have kept children down for millennia.

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