Attraction to children: Individual responsibility for adults attracted to children

Child sexual abuse is a common problem in our society. 1 in 10 children will be sexually abused before their 18th birthday. Most adults blame pedophiles for the sexual abuse epidemic facing children. However, all adults are individually responsible for their sexual behavior around children. 

Every single adult is responsible for the sexual abuse of children, as any old adult could sexually abuse a child under the right/wrong conditions. All adults are capable of harm towards a child. Most child sexual abuse comes from a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to sexually abuse a child, with parents being the most likely culprit. 

God's Law on child sexual abuse is spelled out in 1 Corinthians 6:18 KJV:

Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body. but he that committeth sinneth against his own body.

The Greek root word translated "fornication" is πορνεία (Latin: porneia) and refers here to anything outside of the Christian norm, as understood in the Early Church. "Flee fornication" implies the way out of committing fornication - righteous masturbation to sexual thoughts of children. All adults are capable of sexual attraction to children, which should be dealt with using righteous masturbation. Righteous masturbation is masturbation without pornography, meaning for health reasons It is okay to celebrate your fantasies a bit,  but don't take it too far by acquiring pornography on your possession, The idea is to masturbate to the first thought that comes to mind. For most men, that mental image is of his daughter. The idea is to purge that fantasy from your midst using righteous masturbation. Masturbation is banned by most Christian churches only because it oftentimes comes with pornography. However, the way around this is to masturbate without pornography, as the depictions themselves are what keeps the sexual addiction going. When you actually masturbate without pornography, you may find relief at the very first session. If it smells damp, you need to do it more. 

The sexual norm in the Early Church was clear and straightforward to understand. A man was only allowed two sexual outlets - sex with his wife, and/or righteous masturbation without pornography. As a Christian myself, I am not allowed sex at all with a woman, as she surely is not my wife. A Christian marriage, then and now, consists of a union between one adult man and one adult woman, with this marriage being equal in terms of chronological age. A groom then was only allowed marriage with a woman his age or up to 4 years older. This marriage consisted of an exchange of vows in a church setting, leading to the consummation, meaning the marriage agreement being signed on the dotted line. Simple sexual relations in and of themselves is not a proper marriage, and instead constitutes a fraudulent marriage. 

Pedophilia is not a sin in the eyes of God, as long as it isn't acted upon towards a child. Most pedophiles in the Early Church identified by their sexual desires for children, where they were given a listening ear, with the pedophile being able to talk out their desires for children with someone else. Today, a therapist can provide the listening environment that pedophiles need. All it takes is reflective listening with a pedophile, and then the desires can be a non-issue. 

Pedophilia is not a form of narcissism  Pedophilia is instead a mental health disorder involving a sexual preference for children under age 14. Most pedophilia has an autistic presentation to it, not a narcissistic presentation to it. Most pedophiles have a form of moderate-severe autism, with their whole world surrounding children, even if they have little to do with children in their life. Autism means "one with" a certain topic, which becomes their passion. When that topic is children, you can guess that such an individual is a pedophile. Pedophilia is not due to "woman" trauma or hatred of women, but instead is a genetic disorder that is genetically related to autism, with the onset of puberty triggering the pedophile genes in an individual. Pedophilia is a developmental disorder in the form of arrested sexual development, and can be diagnosed in children as young as 16, or even identified years earlier. Most pedophiles are the last adults to abuse a child in any way, as most pedophiles are aware of their own trauma, meaning they have parent trauma instead of parent jealousy.

The idea behind individual responsibility in terms of child sexual abuse is to stop yourself from sexually abusing a child, instead of relying on other people to stop you. Even if you are in a position of power and influence, you can do something so not to abuse your power. The idea is to masturbate righteously to sexual thoughts of children BEFORE you end up in a situation where you are alone with an attractive child. Moat power and influence abusers take one taste of child blood, and then exploit the fact that they have access to a great many children. Usually, a power and influence abuser is in denial of their sexual nature, even while actively abusing children. 

The depraved and decadent, defiled adults who sexually abuse children will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into torrents of Hell-fire prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent!