Children self-protect, adults abstain: Individual responsibility for adults attracted to children

Many parents think keeping children safe from sexual abuse involves spotting a threat, usually a pedophile, and then protecting children from the threat by taking a stand. It is good to protect children from sexual abuse, but not all sexual abusers of children are pedophiles, and not all pedophiles sexually abuse children. The fact of the matter is that children are capable of profiling sexual threats on their own, with adults being capable of righteous avoidance in relation to children.

Children can easily spot a sexual threat in an adult, as all children have a sexual attraction to adults. This attraction repels the child from the adult target, and thus children have the instincts necessary to keep themselves from sexual harm. Whenever a child refuses to go with an adult, the adult surely is a sexual predator, and needs to be confronted. Whenever a child wants to go with an adult, think pedophile of the non-contact type. Some forms of grooming is overlooked by children, and that includes infatuation  grooming. Even then, the child can be taught to not give out personal information to strangers.

Every single adult is responsible in relation to children, as any old adult can sexually abuse a child under the right/wrong conditions. Most child sexual abuse comes from a repressed sexual desire in relation to children, with this sexual desire coming out sideways onto the nearest child, like a ton of bricks. The only way out of this conundrum is to masturbate righteously to sexual thoughts of children, without the usage of pornography.

The Greek root word in the New Testament translated "lust" is έπιθυμέω (Latin: epithumeo) and refers here to a sexual narcissist, which most adults have in relation to children. The only way out of this conundrum is to face your unwanted child fantasies head on, and masturbate to those thoughts. It usually should only take a few sessions to spend the fantasy away, with the fantasy then being a rare curiosity. 

I myself am a pedophile. A pedophile is not an anger packet. A pedophile is a human being with a primary or exclusive sexual preference for children under age 14.  Most pedophiles have a form of immature autism with their specialty is children in terms of knowledge and social skills. Most pedophiles have a form of autism with child smarts. Most pedophiles never get angry with children, and instead are born nurturers of children  If you see someone with autism get along with children, think pedophile, as most adults with autism find children to be annoying. 

I myself have an offense under my belt, namely in the form of infatuation grooming. I am currently under investigation for the sexual abuse I committed against a cousin, in the form of sexual harassment. I engaged in antisocial "rough-play" in my grandparents' attic with my cousin. I answer to the court, and plead "yea" to what actually happened. There was accusation of rape, which never happened. The police cut me a break because I meant well towards my cousin. All the police had to do was issue a warning at my door, but they were revved up for a raid which would never happen. I myself see my crushes as coming in the form of train cars, with everybody around me hoping for the caboose. 

The sexual dynamics of a family home come in the form of a criss-cross. Fathers and daughters are naturally attracted to each other, in an unrequited format. Boys are attracted to their mothers in the form of a dead end. The idea is to masturbate to the sexual thoughts of your child, and spend away that attraction. 

The depraved and decadent, defiled adults who rape and sexually assault children will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into torrents of Hell-fire prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent!