Children self-protect, adults abstain: Individual responsibility for adults attracted to children

Many parents believe that all child sexual abusers are pedophiles. This is a common attitude amongst American parents. However, most parents don't know that most child sexual abuse comes from opportunists, not pedophiles. Every single adult is responsible individually for the sexual abuse of children. 

Children, in most cases, are able to detect a sexual threat to their well-being. Whenever a child refuses to go with an adult, think sex offender. When a child wants to go with a complete stranger, think pedophile of the non-offending type. Most pedophiles who do molest children target their victims using zig-zag grooming, with zig-zag grooming consisting of phishing for a child's personal information in order to gain access to a child. 1 in 4 pedophiles commit sexual offenses against children, with most of those offenses involving sexual harassment of some type. I myself am guilty of street harassment towards children.

The Greek root word denoting fornication is πορνεία (Latin: porneia) and refers to anything outside of proper channels, as understood in context. The proper channels for sex then was with your spouse, or else with yourself through masturbation without pornography. Pedophilia alone was not seen as fornication. Masturbation was seen then as a purification ritual, meaning as a way to flee fornication. 

Most adults are in lust in relation to children. The Greek root word denoting lust is έπιθυμέω (Latin: epithuneo) and refers to holding a sexual narcissist. Any time you avoid a certain youthful age bracket in your sexual fantasies, you are repressing sexual desire. Most child sexual abuse comes from repressed sexual desire, coming out sideways onto the child victim like a ton of bricks. The only way out of lust is in, meaning righteous masturbation.

A pedophile is not an anger packet. A pedophile is a human being with a sexual preference towards children under age 14. Most pedophiles have an autistic specialty in children in  terms of knowledge and social skills. Most pedophiles are ambiverts, meaning they are largely introverted, but only want to be friends with children. Autism means "one with". A pedophile is one with the children, meaning children are their passion in terms of autism. If you see a male with autism be a natural nurturer of children, think pedophile, because most individuals with autism are annoyed by children. When pedophiles do commit sexual offenses against children, they usually mean well, but don't know the boundaries. However, most child sexual abuse comes from a certain type of sexual narcissist that hates children sexually. Most pedophiles are incapable of holding a narcissist, as they have a form of autism that makes them incapable of denying any member of their person. 

Most adults are at risk for sexually abusing a child, and that is because most adults deny their sexual attraction towards children. Most adult attraction to children is parental in nature, meaning that in most cases, a father is sexually attracted to his daughter, and takes advantage of her attraction to him. Many men in particular fear "hitting" their teenage daughter. The only way out of this predicament is to masturbate righteously, meaning masturbate righteously to sexual thoughts of your daughter. Most women are also at risk of sexually abusing teenage boys in particular, especially if they work with children and/or are traumatically averse to adult men. Most female sexual abusers operate outside of the family, whereas most male sexual abusers attack the nearest child to them. 

Most pedophiles are only a danger to themselves. On the Virtuous Pedophiles forum - a support group for non-contact pedophiles - a high percentage of pedophiles have considered suicide. A common comorbid disorder to pedophilia is major depression, not just autism. An untold number of pedophiles have actually committed suicide. Most pedophiles have situational depression and anxiety from being attracted to children, which counts as pedophilic disorder. I myself am a rare sort of pedophile that was prideful and ignorant to boundaries. Most pedophiles are not like me, and know darn well where the boundaries are. 

But, don't we all as adults have some track record of abusing and wronging children? Most of us as adults, apart from maybe a few pedophiles here and there, have a clear record of harming children, even if we didn't intend harm. I myself abused a child with the best of intentions, meaning I simply did not understand the boundaries. Most pedophiles who do offend against children mean well, in which case the police excuse the offense. Some pedophiles do mean harm, but they are rare, as most offenders who mean harm are ordinary adults with a sexual narcissist that they keep for the closest child to them. Child sexual abuse is simply one way that adults oppress children, with sexual abuse being intended as a form of punishment, usually alongside corporal punishment. Most adults don't sexually abuse children, but they sure are capable under the right/wrong conditions. But, if a sex offender has visible autistic features, think pedophile. I oppose child abuse even when the adult means well by it. and support locking up even well-meaning abusers. Currently, the letter of the law is only applied nationwide if the offender intends harm towards the victim, meaning something I can't even relate to as a pedophile - I love children, and don't want to hurt them in any way. I am the survivor of well-meaning parents, and so I know what it is like to have your abuser excused by the law. I myself also meant well when I abused a child in the attic of my grandparents' house, but I sure committed a form of summary harassment under the letter of the law. I don't deserve forgiveness for sexually offending against a child, but I am grateful for the forgiveness that I am afforded by children. I may well have earned my keep in relation to children, but I don't say. 

I myself am under investigation for sexually motivated rough-play in my grandparents' attic, and plan to continue to cooperate with the authorities - I was accused of a rape that I never committed, but there is pretty much always a kernel of truth to any false accusation. My victim didn't claim rape, but her testimony about my past conduct triggered a predictive investigation stemming from Robert E. Hall, Jr. and KarenKay Wisniewski-Hall. They predicted falsely that I would commit a string of rapes starting with a cousin. No rape happened, but I sure as heck did something wrong to get my cousin to complain to her parents. All the police had to do was issue a verbal warning at my door, and I would have gotten the message. But, my cousin was unfairly framed as a rape victim, and now she is afraid of the police because of that. I answer to the court, and admit guilt to prove innocence, and if you have my values, there is always something to atone for. The police are surely reading this, and know that I may be many things, but that I am not a child rapist. I do apologize for my sexual behavior towards my cousin, as well as my sexual advances towards several other child victims. I myself committed a sexual offense against several children, meaning I was an adult fornicator towards children. I even masturbated to relive the child that I sexually offended. Now I masturbate for a different reason - to stay out of trouble. Ultimately, I didn't know the boundaries like most pedophiles do, or else I would have behaved differently. As a children's rights pedophile, my goal in life is to avoid self-interest, and prioritize the best interests of children, protecting children from my own predatory instincts. Currently, I am named a victim in a police investigation, with the perpetrators who falsely accused me being in custody awaiting trial. I post about the investigation for full transparency purposes. 

The depraved and decadent, defiled adults who rape and sexually assault children will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into torrents of Hell-fire prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent!