Children self-protect, adults abstain: Individual responsibility for adults attracted to children

Many parents think that only pedophiles sexually abuse children. This is a common attitude amongst American parents. Most American parents view the issue of sexual abuse as distant, meaning they don't believe their child when she discloses that she was sexually abused by an adult. However, ordinary adults are the number one threat to children, as child sexual abuse is a means of adults oppressing children. Children should be empowered to profile all adults for abusers. 

Children are able to profile abusers of children of all kinds, including child rapists. Whenever a child refuses to go with an adult, the adult in question does not mean well in relation to children. However. your average abuser pedophile is a zig-zag groomer, meaning they approach a child in a way that evades the parents. Even then, all a child has to do is not give any personal information to any random adult that asks for it. Children are capable of reverse gaslighting their abuser, if empowered in that context.

The Greek root word translated "lust" in the Bible is έπιθυμέω (Latin: epithumeo) and refers here not to just any sexual desire, but instead refers to adult sexual entitlement. Adult sexual entitlement refers to grooming a child in any way. Grooming refers here to taking the first steps towards sexually abusing a child. The most common form of grooming is automatic approach. Most sexual abusers of children defend adult sexual entitlement when caught sexually abusing a child, and this alone constitutes adult sexual entitlement. Parent sexual entitlement is when a parent in particular rapes or sexually assaults their own child, and defends it in court. 

It is one thing to look the look at a child, and think the think later. But, if you find yourself doing the deed, you shouldn't have approached the child, and shouldn't have even looked at her (see also Matt. 5:27-28). Christ was talking about, in the Sermon on the Mount, the automatic approach of a woman. The only way out of doing the deed with a child is to masturbate to sexual thoughts of children. thereby purging unrequited lusts for children from yourself. If you don't masturbate righteously to sexual thoughts of children, you might find yourself in a situation where you bite off more than you can chew. The only way out of sexual entitlement is in, meaning righteous masturbation. Righteous masturbation is masturbation simply to stay out of trouble, without any pornography involved. 

All adults studied by researchers have a sexual attraction to children. Most adults repress their sexual desires towards children. However, among men, 20% of men have a secondary sexual attraction to prepubescent children, and most all adults have a sexual attraction to teenagers. Even women are capable of sexual attraction towards children, usually towards teenage boys. Sexual attraction, in and of itself, is normal. When it reaches the extreme of being a sexual preference, it then - and only then - becomes a mental health disorder. Most adults are unaware of their sexual attraction towards children. Pedophiles are painfully aware of their attractions to children, and anyone that painfully aware of their attraction to children is the last person to rape or sexually assault a child.

A pedophile is not an anger packet waiting to surface. Instead, pedophilia is a sexual preference for children under age 14. Most pedophiles have a form of moderate-severe autism where their whole world revolves around children. A pedophile is an individual with autism who has child smarts. Autism means "one with". A pedophile has a form of autism that is one with children. Most pedophiles have an affinity attraction to children. Pedophiles do abuse children sometimes, but don't we all as adults have something to atone for in relation to children? I am a regret adult, meaning I sexually harassed several children as a part of an autistic fixation surrounding my child victims. A pedophilic abuser usually acts on an autistic fixation about a specific child. Most pedophiles don't do what I did. Some pedophiles are rapists, but that type of pedophile is rare. 

Pedophiles are perfectly capable of admitting adult privilege. Adult privilege means here that all adults collectively are abusers and oppressors of children. The point of children's rights is to admit your part in the oppression of children, and strive to avoid all self-interest in relation to children. I myself, as a pedophile, want nothing to do with my self-interest. A pedophile is perfectly capable of avoiding parental entitlement, and avoidance of parental entitlement is the core of children's rights. Pedophiles don't need extra help in order to avoid abusing children. Most can resist their sex drive towards children with no help at all from anybody. Righteous avoidance also helps some pedophiles, with me using images of Hell to scare me away from pursuing a date with a child. I myself have wronged children, in the most obsessive of ways. For parts of my life, a specific child was the center of an autistic special interest of mine. I am now under investigation for my sexual obsessions towards children. I am grateful for the forgiveness of both children and the police, as I deserve absolutely none of it. 

I am opposed to privilege arguments, as they divide the country on the basis of identity, with the only valid identity - for the most part - being American. However, we all can get behind children's rights as adults, as all of us have adult privilege in relation to children. Haven't we all wronged or abused a child at some point in our lives? Maybe pedophiles are a close exception, but even they have sexual desires pointed towards a child. We are born sinful, meaning we have a flawed genome as a species. Pedophilia itself is a genetic disorder, linked to developmental disabilities such as autism or ADHD. Most pedophiles will never rape or sexually assault a child, and most will never abuse a child otherwise. "Pedophiles" should not even exist as a forensic label. News outlets should not call sexually entitled adults "pedophiles".

The depraved and decadent, defiled adults who rape or sexually assault children will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into torrents of Hell-fire, which is the second death prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent!