Adult attraction to children: Individual responsibility for adults attracted to children

Many adults blame pedophiles for the sexual abuse of children. Most adults presume that pedophiles are the adults to blame for the sexual abuse epidemic in this country. However, all adults are at some risk for sexually abusing a child, with pedophiles being amongst the least at risk for committing acts of child sexual abuse. 

Most child sexual abuse is not committed by pedophiles. Instead, most child sexual abuse can be committed by any ordinary adult. Most child rapists are opportunistic offenders, meaning they find themselves with a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity before their very eyes. Most child sexual abuse occurs when adults repress their sexual attraction to children, and then it comes out sideways onto the child, like a ton of bricks.

All adults have at least some attraction to children. Most men are attracted to teenage girls. 20% of men have a secondary attraction to prepubescent children. 1-2% of men are clinically pedophilic, meaning they have a surface-level sexual attraction to children under age 14 that is primary or exclusive in nature. It is unknown how many women are attracted to children, but one can presume all of them are attracted at least to teenage boys, as teenage boys look similar to adult men. 

Pedophiles are the least likely to find themselves in a situation where they give in to their sexual attractions. That is because pedophiles are always aware of their sexual drive towards children, usually in the form of unwanted and intrusive thoughts. They want the thoughts to go away, but they aren't going to, and so they have to come to terms with the fact that they are pedophiles. Pedophilia is a genetic condition associated with autism in terms of genetic predisposition. Most pedophiles who abuse children are obvious abusers. I myself was an obvious abuser, meaning I made my approach towards young girls obvious, in a way that they found creepy.

What reduces your risk of raping or sexually assaulting a child? Righteous masturbation is the way to go, mixed with righteous avoidance. The Greek root word denoting lust in the Bible is έπιθυμέω (Latin: epithumeo) and refers not to ordinary sexual desire, but to sexual entitlement. Sexual entitlement is defined as, officially speaking, sexual want, to the point of sexually motivated approach. Once the approach was perceived by the child - at all - it was considered child sexual abuse. The only way out of the approach is to masturbate to sexual thoughts of children. Masturbation helps spend away the attraction to children in an adult, until it is all gone, in which case it will only need to be tended to periodically, meaning when the need arises. Also, aversion imagery can be helpful for some adults. I myself am a pedophile, and I use images of Hell to deter me from approaching a child for sexual or flirtatious reasons.

In the Early Church, adults masturbated to thoughts of children, starting frequently, then only periodically once the attraction was spent away. Righteous masturbation was seen as a way for men to discharge their sexual fantasies, and purge themselves of unrequited passions. It was not seen as a major sin to masturbate, meaning it wasn't considered a sin at all. Righteous masturbation is masturbation without the use of pornography, with the intent to stay out of trouble.

Most adults in American society are afraid of tapping into their adult attraction to children through masturbation. They say that when they do, the fantasy is predatory. That is because the fantasy is repressed, and when you repress something as compelling as a sex drive, it turns predatory. As you continue masturbating, the fantasy becomes more aware in nature, and more tame. It turns out to be just like any heterosexual or homosexual attraction. 

I myself am a pedophile, and am one at every level of my awareness. I find it helpful to masturbate once a day to sexual thoughts of children. I specifically pick out those fantasies because they are the core of my attractions, and also because I ha e no other outlet besides masturbation. The fantasies are intense, but depict sexual affections, meaning it isn't from any intent to do harm. I have to be very careful when being affectionate with children, because I might just be hugging them to feel things. What I need is what every adult needs - some time righteously masturbating to sexual thoughts of children. I just am aware of that side of me on the surface. When adult attractions are secondary in nature, they are easy to ignore, but nonetheless should be tended to as any other sexual need. 

Sexual starvation coincides with being alone with a child, that is when abuse strikes. It is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, where both adult and child are alone together, and then the adult offender acts on their sexual feelings towards children. These feelings should ideally be tended to before the adult finds themselves alone with a child, meaning the sexual desires should be purged using righteous masturbation. 

Any adult is capable of sexually abusing a child. That doesn't mean all adults will. The likelihood of sexually abusing a child goes down dramatically if you masturbate periodically to sexual thoughts of children. Then, you can give your child a bath without worrying about "hitting" them. The idea is to follow the sexual thoughts to the end using righteous masturbation.

The depraved and decadent, defiled adults who rape or sexually assault children will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into torrents of Hell-fire prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent!