Why abusers are the biggest threat to pedophiles

Many people feel the same way about pedophiles - they are the ones at-risk for abusing children the most. The fact of the matter is that most adults have abused a child in the past, and all adults carry some risk of abusing a child, under the right/wrong conditions. 

What is pedophilia? Most people see a pedophile as something hidden. The fact of the matter is that pedophiles are not an anger packet, but a human being with serious mental health needs. Most pedophilia is due to autism or ADHD, meaning is a form of sexual immaturity that reflects the immaturity of an individual with a developmental disorder. Most people with autism don't get along with children, and find children annoying. Thus, when you find an adult with autism who just "gets it" with children, think pedophile. Most pedophiles have a skeptical form of autism, meaning they memorize facts about children, with children being the center of their world. An individual with autism is "one with" their decided special interest. A pedophile is "one with" children. Most people do not focus much attention on children, but a pedophile specializes in children, and their sexual interests reflect being one with children.

What is the biggest threat to pedophiles? The abusers themselves. The statistics are clear, and they exclude pedophiles from most blame. Only 1-2% of men are pedophiles, and 3 out of 4 pedophiles have not had sexual contact of any type with children. Most pedophiles are not sex offenders, and when they are, it is usually in the context of negligent parents with developmental disabilities.

What surrounds the conflation? An abuser's excuse, namely "you are the pedophile for even thinking that about me". Someone who says something like that does not deserve the label of "pedophile", because they usually are not a pedophile at all, but instead simply are identifying by a label as a projectory excuse. Most sexual offenders are not pedophiles, and if they are pedophiles, they go by a different excuse usually, namely "that's just because I'm autistic". 

I am opposed to any medical excuse for child sexual abuse, including the word "pedophile" in projectory format. That implies that a pedophile would abuse a child, when, in fact, most pedophiles would not rape or sexually assault a child, even if they got the opportunity of a lifetime to do so. The motto behind this movement is "no medical excuse". If you have a medical reason to call yourself a pedophile, that is different.

The biggest threat to pedophiles is also the biggest threat to children - anti-pedophiles. Most anti-pedophiles sit on an offense, whether they do so officially or not. There is a way to detect child sexual abuse on the surface - look for the parent who is trying to "out" everyone around them as "pedophiles". They usually take a neighborhood watch attitude, and from there, get to know every child in the neighborhood before molesting them. 

Most people who identify as pro-pedophile do, in fact, mean well. Most pedophiles are the last adults to sexually abuse a child. Usually, a sexual offender is unaware of their risk beforehand, and then acts out as a surprise even to them. Most pedophiles are blatantly aware of their attraction to children, with those attractions coming in the form of intrusive thoughts. The only way out is in. 

What creates an abuser? Anti-pedophile attitudes towards masturbation, namely the false Christian teaching that masturbation is somehow this big sin. Most adults claim to only fantasize "18 and up" as a purity standard. However, that purity standard leads to the repressed, unacknowledged desires coming out sideways onto the child, like a ton of bricks. The Greek root word denoting lust and inordinate affections is έπιθυμέω (Latin: epithumeo) and refers not to ordinary sexual desire, but to sexual entitlement. Sexual entitlement is defined as, officially speaking, sexual want, to the point of sexually motivated approach. Masturbation was recommended in the biblical context as an alternative to approaching a child or woman for sexual or flirtatious reasons. 

The hysteria itself is an atmospheric hatred of pedophiles. The cornerstone anti-pedophile belief is that a pedophile will never be saved, and thus is doomed to their fate in Hell. The belief comes from the false belief that masturbation leads to the real thing, and thus, because of that, pedophiles have a predestined fate where they will somehow create a victim. The fact of the matter is that this belief is false. Masturbation is what purges unrequited lusts in pedophiles.

The hatred of pedophiles comes from many sources. However, anti-pedophiles are an abuser that pedophiles have in common with children, and thus are the biggest threat to children's rights in America, with children also usually being abused by individuals who identify openly as anti-pedophile. Most parents are anti-pedophile, but the main threat to pedophiles is a parent that open and blatant about their anti-pedophile views. 

If you want to spot a sexual abuser in a crowd of parents, look for the set of parents that openly blare their anti-pedophile stuff in order to project from the sexual offenses that they are actively committing against their children. Most anti-pedophiles are sexual offenders, and if they are a pedophile, they are in denial in a projectory way. Anti-pedophiles do not deserve the label "pedophile", even if many of them can be diagnosed or self-diagnosed as a pedophile.

Children are the most oppressed of all peoples. Most abusers of children also hate pedophiles, meaning the core of offenders of children don't want their child to have anything to do with pedophiles. Most pro-pedophile parents that I have met are anti-spanking, and usually are gentle parents. That is because gentle parents let their child take the lead in terms of child protection, and the view of the child is clearer on who is an abuser and who isn't, and children profile for abusers based on instinct alone. Most pedophiles I have known feel that they are objectified by children, and enjoy the children treating them as a jungle gym.

Most pedophiles are the last of all peoples to abuse a child. Some pedophiles have, with myself included in the form of sexual harassment. However, most pedophiles are among the few adults that have never abused a child. They admit their adult privilege anyway, because they know in their heart of hearts that they could abuse a child under the right/wrong conditions. All of us have such a risk.

The depraved and decadent, defiled adults who rape or sexual assault children will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into torrents of Hell-fire which is the second death prepared for Satan and his accomplices!