Adult attraction to children: Individual responsibility for adults attracted to children

Many adults blame pedophiles and pedophiles alone for the sexual abuse of children. This is a common attitude amongst American adults. Most adults don't want to blame themselves for the abuse of children, so they point the finger at pedophiles. The fact of the matter is that every single adult poses some risk to children, with all adults being capable of the worst forms of abuse under the right/wrong conditions.

How does child sexual abuse start? It starts with a child crush, meaning the adult develops a crush on a child, and then fights it back, and then keeps fighting it back until it comes out in full wrath on a child victim. By the time the abuse reaches the child, the abuser means harm to the child, due to the level of the sexual repression that they are facing.

What is the answer to child sexual abuse? The idea behind the prevention of child sexual abuse is allowing oneself as an adult to take care of your sexual attraction to children through righteous masturbation. The Greek root word denoting lust in the Bible is επιθυμέω (Latin: epithumeo) and refers not to ordinary sexual desire, but sexual desire so intense that it leads to approaching a child for sexual or flirtatious reasons. 

In biblical times, fathers in particular dealt with their parent attraction towards their children by masturbating righteously to sexual thoughts of their children. It is a myth that, in the biblical context, that fathers sexually corrected their children. Most child sexual abuse is motivated by false context that fathers sexually corrected their children. This setup did exist in most ancient cultures, but not Ancient Jewish culture.

Mothers in biblical times guarded their children from the sexual desires of their fathers by co-sleeping next to them for as long as she could. Co-sleeping always came in skin-on-skin closeness and intimacy, and that eventually tamped down on the father's sexual desires for his children.

Some child sexual abuse is excused falsely by the acronym of "righteous remarriage". The fact of the matter is that, in the Early Church, marriages were only allowed when there was equality in the marriage, meaning in most cases, the man had to be at the same age, or else younger, than his bride. Some brides were married immediately upon reaching the age of majority, to a groom three years older at the very most. No marriage of a child under the age of majority was ever allowed, in both the Old and New Testament. Fathers in the Early Church invited over young men to court the virgin, and the man that showed the most respect was betrothed to the virgin for marriage by the father. 

The biblical context, in its true Hebraic format, is a clean context. We call a context a clean context when all forms of child abuse were prohibited. In most ancient cultures, children were punished by their father, usually with sexual correction. However, in Ancient Jewish culture, including the Early Church, the courts always applied the Law as prohibiting any sexual relations towards children under the age of majority. See Leviticus 18:17 KJV:

Thou shalt not uncover the nakedness of a woman and her daughter, neither shalt thou take her son's daughter, or her daughter's daughter, to uncover their nakedness; for they are her near kinswomen: it is wickedness.

In the legal context of this passage, the courts ruled repeatedly in favor of the victim, even when the daughter and mother were apart, thus applying the Law flexibly. Most all of the time, the daughter was with the mother in the Old Testament context, hence why the text is written this way. The courts, however, sided with the victim in all cases. If a man had any sexual relations with his daughter, and was tried and convicted for it, he was put to death by way of burning at the stake.

Adults are individually responsible for their sexual choices in relation to children. Most men will acknowledge that they are attracted to teenagers. 20% of men are attracted to prepubescent children to some degree. 1-2% of men are primarily or exclusively attracted to children, meaning they are a pedophile. All adults are capable of sexual attraction to children. But, do you deny it, or do you admit that you have a problem and work on it? Righteous masturbation and righteous avoidance go hand in hand. Righteous masturbation centers the sexual desires of men towards their children, with the sexual desires coming out as a male nurturing instinct.

The depraved and decadent, defiled adults who rape or sexually assault children will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend to a Hell of fire and torrents! Repent!