Monday, September 12, 2022

World Suicide Prevention Day - Saving pedophile lives

Many people hate pedophiles. This is a common hatred, and is about as common as the hatred of children. Circles and societies that accept children also accept pedophiles. Many people want to help pedophiles, but can't get past their own biases in terms of the help pedophiles need. What is the key to preventing pedophiles from taking their own lives? 

What is pedophilia? Pedophilia is the primary or exclusive sexual preference for children under age 14. Pedophilia is usually an aspect of autism, with that autism usually being child-centered in nature. Usually, pedophiles are child-centered like a defense attorney or ombudsman center their energy on defending their clients. Usually, pedophilia is apparent when an older teenage child is defending a younger sibling or family member from being scolded or reprimanded, acting like a "lawyer" to children. This "defense attorney" complex is usually apparent in pedophiles since very young.

Most pedophiles do not have what I have. I have a support system where my mother and therapist use active listening strategies to help me come to my own conclusions as to how to deal with being attracted to children. With most pedophiles, their parents are the last people that they can talk to, and so there needs to be resources such as the Virtuous Pedophiles support forums.

Pedophiles are at high risk for suicide. There hasn't been any real research into this in North America, but from individual accounts from pedophiles, the suicide risk is very high among pedophiles. When they are accepted by a family unit, that prevents suicidal thoughts and actions in pedophile teens and young adults.

Most pedophiles learn that they are a pedophile in their teen years. Usually, it is when they can no longer escape the fact that they are attracted to children. This realization comes with anguish and upset. Usually, pedophiles don't feel comfortable in their own skin. Usually, pedophiles self-isolate because they are afraid people will find out that they are a pedophile. It is obvious to them that they are a pedophile, yet they cannot change it or make it go away, yet they know that they won't hurt a child due to their desires. They just want someone to talk to.

Who is orchestrating the pedophile hysteria? Pedophile hysteria comes from religious abusive parents who punish and shame their pedophilic children merely for fantasizing about children. This hatred spreads to other parents, many whom sexually abuse children. Pedophiles then become an easy target to blame. However, all adults are responsible for their sexual behavior concerning children, and all adults are capable of child sexual abuse under the right/wrong conditions. When we deny our capacity to sexually harm children, we start blaming pedophiles, and anyone who wastes their time blaming pedophiles all of the time reeks of an abuser. 

Pedophiles are at high risk for abuse as children, and the trauma from this childhood shaming abuse more often than not leads to suicidal ideation in pedophiles. The trauma itself is a form of severe religious trauma. Most pedophiles that I have known are ardent atheists, of the self-educated variety. I myself can be a Christian and hold those beliefs because I wasn't shamed or abused by my parents with pedophilia being an antecedent for abuse.

The depraved and decadent, defiled adult fornicators of children who blame pedophiles for their own abuse towards children will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them be subject to everlasting punishment in a torrent of Hell-fire! Repent!

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