Many people hate pedophiles. Then, there are a lot of people defending sex offenders, thinking they are being helpful to pedophiles. The prevailing narrative is that all pedophiles abuse children, and that only pedophiles are responsible for child sexual abuse. Most people who hate pedophiles don't understand what a pedophile is, or rather, who a pedophile is.
What is pedophilia? Many people think all pedophiles are narcissists, and that pedophilia is a form of narcissistic desire for children. The fact of the matter is that pedophilia is a form of autism, meaning it is a sexual preference associate with autism spectrum disorders (ASDs). It is a distinct profile of autism where the individual specializes their narrow focus on children and children's issues, oftentimes in a children's rights sense. It is a specific dynamic where the individual with autism does have significant social skills, but only in caring for children. The average pedophile is an ambivert, meaning they are socially outgoing and friendly with children, usually in a selfless way, but are otherwise introverted and self-absorbed. The autistic brain, by definition, is a specialized brain, meaning an individual with autism specializes on one topic and one area of life, and learns all the facts about it. When this dynamic involves children as a point of interest, that is a major indicator of a pedophile.
I myself am a pedophile. All I want from children at this point is to be around them, which I get plenty of in public. I especially like seeing children in summer, when the young girls expose more skin and show more of their bodies. I think of children all the time, meaning my whole worldview is children, and without children, I'd be nothing. I love them all, but from a distance, meaning I leave them be, because sometimes, when you love someone, you leave them be. With children, that means all of the time.
Most pedophiles who do abuse children do so in their younger years, and usually as a form of sexual harassment based off of an obsessive crush on a child. I myself was abusive in the past by following young girls around a pool deck, and approaching several girls in a way that made them feel uncomfortable. That was because I was young, dumb, and impulsive. I choose not to repeat those mistakes that I made. Most full-on rapes or sexual assaults of children are committed by non-pedophilic adults, as a form of sexual entitlement in such adults.
Pedophilia, as a treatable mental health disorder, is the model in terms of preventing all forms of child sexual abuse through mental health treatment. All adults have traits of pedophilic disorder, but usually in the form of repressed sexual desire for children, usually pubescent children. The key to preventing sexual abuse of children is empowering adults to allow themselves to have sexual thoughts about children, and not push those thoughts out of their head. Whenever you repress something as powerful as a sex drive, you allow for it to control you. When you become aware of a sexual drive, you control it. Sexual fantasy about children encapsulates the fantasy in the brain, and the longer you practice with that fantasy, the more that fantasy will stay encapsulated. Lust, in the Bible, is not understood in context as the same as ordinary sexual desire. Lust, in the biblical tense, means sexual desire to the point of taking the first steps to approach a child for sexual purposes. If every adult allowed themselves sexual thoughts of children as part of a varied sexual diet, we wouldn't have the sexual abuse epidemic that we have now.
I support more laws to protect children from sexual abuse, including eliminating statute of limitation laws, broader child abuse definitions, as well as longer sentences for child abuse offenders of all kinds. Child abuse should be whatever the child victim perceives as abusive. Why do I say this in a post that supports pedophiles? Because pedophiles easily could be the victim of such abuse. The most oppressed of all pedophiles are still children, and they are being sexually shamed - and even sexually abused - by their abusive religious parents, as a form of spiritual abuse persecuting them for being pedophiles. I am fortunate to have understanding parents, as most pedophiles cannot even bring themselves to talk to their parents about such an issue. Abuse of pedophiles is a form of religious child abuse that is coming out of the darkness, and into light, thanks to the efforts of the Virtuous Pedophiles (VirPed) community. Most pedophile members of VirPed were abused by religious parents, meaning they were singled out as predestined to be a pedophile, then punished for their sexual thoughts about children. Most pedophiles are not religious, but instead are atheists.
Let the depraved and decadent, defiled adult fornicators who abuse children, then blame pedophiles, BURN in everlasting torrents of Hell-fire! Repent!
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