Canaries in the coal mine: How pedophile acceptance is a sign of child acceptance

Most people do not understand pedophiles, and a great many hate pedophiles. Pedophilia is parental sexual attachment to children under age 14. 3 out of 4 pedophiles do not sexually abuse children, with the majority of pedophiles in North America supporting youth rights. Pedophiles are canaries in the coal mine, in a positive sense. Wherever the acceptance of pedophiles is normalized, child acceptance follows suit.

Why connect the welfare of children with the welfare of pedophiles? Aren't these separate issues that conflict with one another, an ardent pro-spanker might say? Nope. The two go together like America to baseball and apple pie. It all is about attachment, meaning attachment theory.

Attachment research shows that, when disclosed, pedophiles are received on the level of children, meaning they are seen as a kid. How pedophiles are treated in a certain society when discovered is how children are treated, for the most part, and vice versa. 

Germany banned spanking and corporal punishment of children in 2000. Before then, pedophiles were accepted by German society, with the Prevention Project "Don't Offend" (formerly Prevention Project Dunkelfeld) educating the German public about pedophilia and sexual attraction to children. This conditioned the German public to accept children covertly, then leading to a ban on spanking.

Most women and mothers understand pedophiles innately, and if they don't know what to do with a pedophile, they revert to maternal instinct, which is to lay out the welcome mat and nurture the pedophile. All of the times women have abused pedophiles, they were enlisted by patriarchal men. 

Pedophile hatred is an extension of the Men's Rights Movement (MRM), meaning pedophiles are seen as "beta males" by men's rights activists (MRAs), meaning alt-right influence is what is keeping the pedophile hysteria going, otherwise it would have died off a long time ago. Pedophile hatred is a form of white supremacy, since it seems to be orchestrated by white supremacist factions of our society.

My mother did not know what to do when I disclosed as a pedophile to her at age 16, so she went on what she knew as per her maternal instinct. Women naturally mother pedophiles in a way that listens and validates, or else, in the case of offenders, listens for BS. Most mothers know what to do about pedophiles naturally, meaning if women ran the anti-pedophile front, without male oversight, the world would be a lot more humane for pedophiles, meaning it wouldn't be anti-pedophile at all. It would only be anti-abuser and anti-abuse. However, most women still punish their children, and so they naturally will take an entitled attitude towards pedophiles like they do their own children.

Pedophilia is an immature condition, at all levels. Most individuals with the disorder are immature emotionally and perhaps even cognitively, usually due to a developmental disability or disorder of some sort, usually a form of autism. Pedophilia is conflated with the immaturity of the individual with the disorder, and when it is disclosed to the other person, it is seen as a sign of immaturity. People start seeing the adult as on the level of the children they are attracted to. Most parents today punish children and thus punish pedophiles as well, whereas parents in the Early Church likely listened to pedophiles. In fact, pedophilia was common in fathers then, and support systems for such were well-networked in church communities. Nowhere in the Bible, or its context, however, does it say it is okay to sexually molest or have sexual relations with a child, as such was seen as wickedness (Lev. 18:17). Parents, especially fathers, then were immature, as they were conditioned to be immature on the level of the child by attachment parenting.

What is the goal of my advocacy on this front? My presence here cements the clinical acceptance of pedophiles, which is a reform long overdue. My plan is to network with trauma survivors, and have them relay the message, as there is only so much I can do alone. What I can relay to pedophiles is that once you disclose such an attraction to people, don't take it too personally if someone treats you like their own child, except if they are punitive about it. You get a great deal of information from haters about how they must treat their own children, if they treat you like crap.

When do we know when children's justice is on its way? Once pedophiles are accepted by society despite their condition. Once society is brought to the level of a pedophile, they can relate to children at their level as well. The fact of the matter is that pedophilia is a victim/abuser - most of us are victims of abuse, not abusers. Let's ban pedophile hysteria, and make pedophilia a public health crisis instead, and then the pedophile survivors can tell their story about how their lawfully abusive parents punished and controlled them.