Why pedophilia is not a medical excuse for abuse

Many people are afraid of normalizing pedophilia even as a mental health condition because of one thing - it could "be used as an excuse for abuse". I support identity rights for pedophiles, but not as an excuse for abuse, but as a way to assert yourself as not an abuser, as most pedophiles are the last person to abuse a child.

Most pedophiles do not sexually abuse children, and most are youth rights supporters. 3 out of 4 pedophiles are abstinent from their sex drive, and most that I have polled are anti-spanking. With this amount of data supporting the non-offending trends among pedophiles, being a pedophile should not be an excuse for abuse, at all.

Pedophilia is immature sexuality expressed as age-based attractions to children. Usually, pedophilia is co-morbid with some form of ASD or ADHD, and in males, the immaturity associated with developmental delays and disorders is most likely expressed in terms of age-based attractions to children. Pedophilia is simply arrested sexual development associated with a developmental disorder. Pedophiles are far more likely to be victims of crime and abuse than perpetrators of such.

The idea is for the innocent, non-offending pedophiles to identify, and the rest to remain submerged, with them identifying as parents or adults instead as an excuse. Predatory pedophiles who abuse their own children tend to either misuse children's rights ideas or support the parents in everything, with most predators being parent narcissists.

Pedophiles and adults attracted to children in general sexually assault and rape for the same reasons adults are raped and sexually assaulted - it was the opportune thing to do, due to recklessness involving the perpetrator's chosen location. All a pedophile has to do to avoid sexually abusing a child is pinpoint where they would offend a child, and avoid it, escaping from imminent, emergency situations where a child is in imminent risk of harm from them, and they recognize it. A rapist of any degree simply gets themselves into a situation that they could have just egressed from, but they instead chose to take up the opportunity to sexually abuse that child.

Abusing a child is a choice, and a choice most pedophiles avoid with ease. I myself am a pedophile of the non-offending sort, and the more I have avoided situations that were bad for me and the child, the easier it has gotten to avoid such a situation. What I did was pro-social hi/lo-tide and the tide is receding slowly, meaning I am almost at the point where I can visit a child's house, but I am not quite there and seek to meet children only in a neutral location within public visage. I still, however, feel convicted to only speak to children only on their cue and consent, when they offer to "break the ice". 

Pedophilia is not a medical excuse for abuse. I can just choose not to abuse children, and then everything flows with that. Most child sexual abuse is not an accident - it is a choice. If you identify by being "in the wrong place, at the wrong time" you are choosing to abuse, because you could have just left. Let the depraved adult fornicators of children BURN in HELL for ALL ETERNITY, suffering in the lake of fire in eternal torment! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!