Pedophile sensitivity: Understanding pedophilic disorder

Many people err in sensitivity towards pedophiles, and quite a few people hate pedophiles as a projectory hatred. The hatred of pedophile is reliant on misinformation about pedophilia as a valid mental illness. Pedophiles who do not abuse children have earned their worth, unlike most adults, who do abuse children. Most people either don't care or are oversensitive to pedophiles. 

Pro-social ignorance and pro-social listening are the two mainstays of pedophile sensitivity, meaning non-pedophiles will never understand pedophiles, or vice versa, and that must be accepted from day one. Throwing help at the pedophile could do more harm than good. You never know what kind of case of pedophilia the individual has, and so you don't judge, and instead listen reflectively.

Pro-social listening means two things with pedophiles - listen and validate with non-offenders, and listen for BS with pedophiles who offend against children. Instead of assuming they want something, listen first and gauge their needs from there, based on their input.

Pedophiles who cry when they disclose are simply looking for help, meaning a listening ear. They are turning you into nothing but a confessor in their eyes. A pedophile wants to disclose to somebody who they can confess their deepest troubles and upsets about their pedophilia. Angry or tone-deaf disclosures are, in fact, more dangerous. Tone-deaf disclosures are the funny, comical type that most adults simply laugh at due to being so out of place, but it is not joke for the child on the receiving end of the abuse, even if all the adults around her think it is a joke. Usually, the disclosures are intended to be taken seriously, but in a more gentle, non-punitive form of accountability, meaning encouraging discouragement of sexual affairs and liaisons with children.

Most pedophiles are not abusers of children, but victims of child abuse such as sexual shaming abuse. 3 out of 4 pedophiles do not sexually abuse children, and most pedophiles, meaning individuals attracted to children under age 14 as an age preference, are youth rights supporters, usually in a way that holds them accountable. Most hatred of pedophiles, as perceived by the pedophile, comes from parents who shame their children for things such as sexual fantasy, and are usually singled out because the parent inferred that their son or daughter was going to be a pedophile.

Let the depraved and entitled parents who sexually shame and control pedophiles BURN in everlasting torment! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!