Why the proprietarian "ownership" of children by parents is entitlement and abuse

Many child protection organizations, namely the Center for Missing and Exploited Children (CMEE), support proprietarian ownership of children in relation to parents. I, on strict Christian grounds, disagree. I instead support the exact reversal - children have properitarian control over themselves, and control over their parents as well, particularly in relation to their needs. Think like a yo-yo.

Yes, I AM the type of pedophile that would resent the parents. But, if I were to start plotting a kidnapping, would the child want to go? I don't think they would, as they'd suffer from Stockholm Syndrome. Lawfully abused children often defend their abuser in an ever-so-cold way that reeks of something under the surface. Instead of kidnapping them, I would hang out with them, allow them to feel safe within my presence, and then allow them to vent with me in the form of a jurisdictional peacekeeper...A child, to me, clearly is an individual. I don't get a nostalgic image of a child, but instead a convicting feeling conflated with their vulnerability, much like being around people with disabilities - you don't want to rock the boat, and so you fear with reverent fear, until the child invites to be closer as friends. 

I can set limits under my Christian faith like I would a friend, but that's about it. It says in Colossians 3:20-21 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in all things, as is well-pleasing until the Lord. Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, lest they become discouraged.

The Greek root world translated "children" is τεκνον (Latin: teknon) and refers to a form of dependency that a mature believer would have on Christ, gently assisting a young child to the same spiritual status, without punishment or coercion. The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to surrender in the form of secure attachment and rest in relation to parents, in a way that one can tell one's parents anything, and not expect any punishment whatsoever. The Greek root word translated "provoke...to anger" is ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) and refers to short-term damages inflicted upon a child victim, namely pain, shame, defamation of character, guided by entitled attitudes linked to the depraved nature of adults.

Entitlement, in the New Testament, is denoted by the Greek root word πλεονέκτης (Latin: pleonektés) and refers to an attitude of "I am a good, loving parent, and you belong to me as my child". Entitlement is not simply wanting something from a child, but wanting it to the point of imposing said item onto a child, in the form of theft/child abuse. Most all parents in this country defend proprietarian entitlement, to varying degrees, denying children of their autonomy.

A child is her own being - her autonomous being, with the stars and stripes lines against her silhouette. America was founded under Judaeo-Christian family values. Adults are to be struck in reverent terror and awe as to the every need and interests of children, as denoted by the Greek root word ψοβός (Latin: phobos) and refers to reverent caution, namely the type that stops you from saying something hurtful to a friend, family member, or co-worker. Clip of the tongue in parenting, or else ties the arm back when you want to physically lash out at your child. The 40 lashes in Solomon's day were for the abusive parents, before getting their blood let by strangulation (chenek). This is all symbolic today for Hell (under divine jurisprudence) and/or a long prison sentence, for striking or otherwise punishing/controlling a child, at the very least.

I belong to a child, just as an abuser belongs to all of his/her victims, for ALL adults are guilty of abuse in God's eyes for their mere existence, and are marked for deletion hitherto. All adults, by default, will be annihilated on the last day, alongside this child-hating world, with only the children being resurrected. There will be a new world awaiting them, where abuse wouldn't exist.