Pedophilic children: How to accommodate your pedophilic child

Many parents are afraid of their child being sexually abused. Children being sexually abused is usually every parent's nightmare. However, most parents aren't prepared for their child being a pedophile. Most parents think such a child deserves punishment, namely the attitude of "I never raised a pedophile". However, a pedophile has a mental health disorder that is genetic in nature. A pedophilic child is a child with special needs, not a monster in the making.

A pedophile is not an anger packet directed towards children. A pedophile is a human being with arrested sexual development. Most pedophiles have an immature form of autism that is child-centered in nature. Most individuals with autism have trouble relating to children. Thus, when a child with autism gets along with much younger children, think pedophile. Most of the time, the pedophile is acting as a defense attorney on behalf of a child. But, most pedophilic males in particular know how to nurture a child, meaning not through sex, but more appropriate forms of closeness. A child can be a pedophile, in which case they can be diagnosed at age 16, and identified even earlier.

Most people think being a pedophile alone is sin. However, pedophilia is not a moral crime. It is a flaw of the human genome, but it isn't a sin to be a pedophile. The Greek root word translated "fornication" is πορνεία (Latin: porneia) and refers here not to mere sexual desires, but instead here refers to sexual advances towards a child, at minimum. Mere sexual attractions are not reasons for God to condemn an individual. Most men in the Early Church avoided sexual sin by way of masturbating righteously without pornography. I am a pedophile, and I convict myself with this Greek word. 

What your pedophilic child needs is room to masturbate to sexual thoughts of children. Use of pornography is prohibited in the Bible, but you can accommodate their sexual needs otherwise by letting them masturbate to sexual thoughts of children. In the Early Church, most men had a masturbation policy as an amendment to their theology, and that included anything that wouldn't fit into a Christian marriage, including attraction to children.

Most sexual offenses committed by pedophiles are committed out of curiosity, not intent to harm. What a pedophilic child needs is the reuse of body positivity literature. The more that children's private parts are known to a young pedophile, the less likely that their curiosity will land them to choose to sexually abuse a child. Most pedophiles who sexually abuse a child just want to see things, and so body positivity literature is the best bet to help them see things.

Most people think that we as survivors started the hysteria against pedophiles, including many who defend pedophiles. However, the hysteria actually started with the Roman Catholic Church. Pope Constantine issued a decree stating that when an individual admitted to sexual attraction to children, that all friends and family must disperse from them, with anyone defending the pedophile becoming a pedophile themselves. Before Rome took over, the Early Christians treated pedophiles well, meaning that when they disclosed their attractions, it was assumed that they needed help of some sort. Maybe a parent would stand in between their child and the pedophile. But, usually, the pedophile needed to use another person as a sounding board. Pedophiles then could even become clergy in the Early Church, and used the pulpit to advocate attachment parenting. Survivors only opposed pedophiles in order to win over the right kind of opposition of a pedophile, meaning one that mentioned trauma. Once a pedophile mentions a trauma here at survivors, they are welcome here any time.

Pedophiles have a collective parent trauma, usually from parents who sexually shame their pedophilic children. Usually, such parents know their child is a pedophile, and threaten to send them out on the street if they ever disclose. All trauma in a pedophile exists on the inherent level, meaning the sexual level. Most adults ignore their childhood traumas by focusing on parent anger at their child. But, a pedophile is usually incapable of any adult anger towards a child. Most child sexual abuse instead is committed out of anger, and has nothing to do with pedophilia. 

Most child sexual abuse is not committed by pedophiles. The sexual abuse of children is usually a crime of opportunity, meaning an adult acts on a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to rape, sexually assault, or sexually harass a child. Usually, this sexual abuse comes in the form of a rape. Sometimes, a pedophile does sexually abuse a child, but the motives are different, and the sex offender is left off by the police for not having intent to harm. Most pedophile rapes happen in the case of a mentally disabled offender, meaning the pedophile rapist usually has a low IQ. Most child sexual abuse committed by pedophiles happens in the context of what is called an obvious abuser - they have a crush on a child, and make it obvious to the child and everyone else around them.

I myself was an obvious abuser in my past. I myself, as a pedophile, usually acted on my desires in the form of street harassment. I had many crushes, coming like train cars, with everyone around me hoping for the caboose. I am under investigation for a specific incident of sexual harassment that happened in my grandparents' attic against my cousin. I was falsely and fraudulently accused of rape, when it was a form of sexual harassment instead. This whole platform is being monitored by the police, and thus I choose to be fully transparent in light of these allegations - I am non-deserving of appearances, and so I accept if I am seen in an unflattering way by my readers. I do mention being investigated for full disclosure purposes. The police have already decided that I am not guilty, due to not intending harm towards a child. I, however, believe I am guilty of sexual harassment of children, and deserve prison. I am grateful for the grace afforded to me by the legal system. 

Most pedophiles aren't like me. I didn't know where the boundaries are during the time of my offenses. Most pedophiles know where the boundaries are, with 3 out of 4 pedophiles having no acts of child sexual abuse under their belt. Most pedophiles, if they do pose a danger, only pose a danger to themselves. Most pedophiles hate their attractions to children, due to the fact that they are afraid of acting on their desires. They don't want to hurt a child, and so they hate their attractions. What they need to know is that if they are that afraid of abusing a child, that they are a good person and not a bad person. The problem is that many pedophiles have preplanned a suicide for if they are found out as a pedophile, especially if they have a co-morbid diagnosis of major depression.

Most pedophiles have a co-morbid diagnoses of moderate-severe autism spectrum disorder. I myself have moderate autism. I can tell you everything you need to know about parenting, but I can't even clean up after myself half the time. I struggle with things most people take for granted, such as organizational skills. Most pedophiles are like me, and focus on children all of the time in an autistic way in the course of their attractions. Autism usually comes with a mood disorder as well. Those with major depression usually pose a danger to themselves. The most risky form of pedophilia is mine - with a co-morbid diagnosis of bipolar mania. Bipolar disorder can come in the form of the sufferer being exclusively manic. I now take psychotropic medication to calm down my mind, namely lithium carbonate. Even with lithium treatment, you still need to learn the boundaries, especially if you are a pedophile. I use my Christian faith to convict me of the boundaries in our society, as our society is founded on Judeo-Christian norms. Medication can be seen as training wheels for the sufferer of mental illness to do the rest of the work on their own. I myself followed the 12 Steps in dealing with my pedophilia, leaning on the fourth step. I needed that kind of intervention. Most pedophiles do not. Most pedophiles instead need to learn to accept their sexual fantasies of children, and that can be done by masturbating to sexual thoughts of children to become more comfortable with your sexual desires. 

As a pro-pedophile advocate for children, I seek to ban the pejorative use of the word "pedophile". Most pedophiles pose no risk apart from maybe to themselves, and most adults who sexually abuse children aren't pedophiles. "Our abuser" as survivors was not a pedophile, but rather was a womanizer who had "I own the world" delusions. We as survivors profile for pedophiles differently. He may be a pedophile, but is he a rapist? If he is a rapist, we exile them. If he simply has attractions to children, he can be here anytime. Maybe he is an abuser other than a rapist, in which case he is lumped in with rapists and not welcome here. Pro-pedophile, in the context of children's rights, means making it okay for pedophiles to admit to their desires without threat of mental health stigma. My religion is children's rights, not "pedophilia". 

The depraved and entitled parents who sexually shame their pedophilic children will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into torrents of Hell-fire prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent!