Child sexual abuse prevention: Individual responsibility for adults attracted to children

Many adults in American society believe in the concept of collective responsibility. Collective responsibility amounts to other adults stopping a predatory adult from raping and sexually assaulting a child. However, there are things an adult at-risk for sexually abusing a child can do to stop themselves from sexually abusing a child.

It is a myth that an adult can have a "predestined fate" to rape or sexually assault a child. Most sexual abusers of children instead act on a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to sexually abuse a child. Most child sexual abusers are not pedophiles, as any old adult could rape or sexually assault a child under the right/wrong conditions.

The Greek root word translated "fornication" in the Bible is πορνεία (Latin: porneia) and refers to anything outside of proper ventricles, as understood then. The proper sexual ventricles for a man is sex with his wife, and masturbation without pornography. Mere masturbation without pornography was encouraged in that society then, and most men in particular made a commitment to God to masturbate whenever necessary to keep safe from sexual immorality (see also 1Thess. 5:22). 

Most child sexual abuse comes from a repressed secondary sexual attraction towards children, meaning usually teenage girls. Most adults are unaware of their secondary sexual attractions toward children, until it comes out sideways onto the nearest child, like a ton of bricks. The idea is to spend away this adult attraction to children through righteous masturbation, meaning masturbation without pornography in order to stay out of trouble. 

Parent attractions in Christian households in the Early Church came in the form of a criss-cross, with sexual attractions between father and daughter happening in mutually unrequited setup, with boys being attracted to their mothers in the form of a dead end. Usually, parents and children then masturbated to sexual thoughts of each other. 

All adults are responsible for their sexual behavior around children. All adults are capable of raping and/or sexually assaulting a child under the right/wrong condition. The key to avoiding the sexual abuse of a child is righteous avoidance. Part of righteous avoidance is righteous masturbation, meaning adults then regularly spent away attractions to children by way of masturbating to thoughts of that child. When you fight back any sexual desire, it comes out sideways onto the nearest child, like a ton of bricks. 

Most men are afraid of masturbation because they fear that they may be led to pornography. However, masturbation can exist apart from pornography, and I myself regularly masturbate to sexual thoughts of children for health reasons. I had a brief pornography addiction that lasted a few nights, before I simply masturbated to the imagery without the imagery present - and that ended my short lived pornography habit. Masturbation without pornography feels a bit like accomplishment, and a bit like relief of sexual tension. "Stay above it all" only does so much - you need to masturbate righteously to thoughts of things you can't have in real life. 

Pedophiles are capable of child sexual abuse. I myself sexually abused a child by way of street harassment. Ultimately, I was an "infatuation" groomer, meaning I had crushes on children that came like train cars, with everyone around me hoping for the caboose. I was an obvious abuser, meaning I bragged to everyone about my child crushes. I lacked boundaries then. Most pedophilic rape comes from the same place, with the pedophilic rapist usually having a low IQ. 1 in 4 pedophiles sexually abuse children, usually in the form of sexual harassment. 

Most pedophiles are incapable of repressing their sexual drive towards children. When a pedophile announces "I'm cured", they surely are not, and simply have repressed those desires lower than their awareness. There is no cure for pedophilia, and there never will be. All adults have a little bit of attraction to children, and they need to spend that attraction away by way of masturbation for health reasons. Usually, it only takes one or two sessions of masturbation to spend away an ordinary adult attraction to children. If it takes a lot longer, you are a pedophile, and you need to own up to it. Most pedophiles are only a danger to themselves, meaning they usually are anguished in their self-hatred, to the point of suicidal ideation. Some pedophiles with major depression do take their own life.

A pedophile is not an sexual anger packet directed towards a child. A pedophile instead is an individual with a sexual preference for children under age 14. Most pedophiles have a co-morbid diagnosis of moderate-severe autism that is centered on children in terms of knowledge and social skills. A pedophile is usually an ambivert, meaning they like either to be left alone or be left with children. Most actual pedophile are the last people to rape or sexually assault a child. Most child sexual abuse comes from a secondary attraction to teenage girls that most men in particular have. Most women also have a secondary attraction to teenage boys.

The depraved and decadent, defiled adults who rape and sexually assault a child will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into the abyss which is the lake of fire and burning sulfur, which is the second death prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent!