Child crushes: Individual responsibility for adult attraction to children

Many adults think that pedophiles are solely to blame for the sexual abuse epidemic. Child sexual abuse is a real problem in today's society, with 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 6 boys being sexually abused before their 18th birthday. Most people use pedophiles as a medical excuse not to deal with the problem, claiming the problem is "over there". The problem comes from a simple issue - adult sexual entitlement. Adult sexual entitlement is sexual entitlement on the part of an adult towards children, and is a widespread form of entitlement, especially amongst men, but also quite a few women. 

All adults are guilty in relation to children, but especially parents, and are deserving of nothing but DEATH and PUNISHMENT merely for existing in relation to children with the sexual entitlement they presumably have as parents/adults. All adults are capable of the moral crime of raping or sexually assaulting a child under the right/wrong conditions. Righteous avoidance is about avoiding the conditions that lead you as an adult to sexually abusing a child. Righteous avoidance is to be weighed with righteous masturbation. 

Adult sexual entitlement is defined as, officially speaking, sexual wants from children, to the point of sexually motivated approach. This becomes fornication by way of rape/sexual assault once the approach is perceived by the child, either by way of offense (if the child perceives offense) or procurement (if the child goes along with it). Sexual assault is a form of fornication that ranges from leering to rape, based off of the offense perceived by a child, which is any perception of sexually motivated intent from an adult by a child. Any time the child says the word "creep" concerning an adult, it is fornication by way of sexual assault.

Most rapes and sexual assaults against children happen the same way. The adult offender develops a crush on the child, and represses that crush because it alarms them. They then continue to repress the crush to the unaware level, fighting back the crush until the crush comes out sideways onto the child. Usually, rapes and sexual assaults against children are single incident events, and not committed by a pedophile. Pedophilic children are at a heightened risk for being raped or sexually assaulted by an adult trying to "correct" or "cure" them for their pedophilia. 

The idea to prevent child sexual abuse is for adults to feel free to masturbate to sexual thoughts of children, as a means of discharging their natural sexual fantasies about children. Then, sexual fantasies and desires about children will be on the aware level throughout society. I am not for open discussion of sexual fantasies of any kind, meaning we don't discuss these things in public. But, an adult should feel free to go there if tempted by a crush on a child. The more they do it, the more they will accept that part of their attractions, and then they will be able to control their sexual desires for children, as the desires will be on the surface level.

You control a sexual desire for children by setting boundaries with yourself through aversion imagery. I imagine myself burning in Hell for approaching a young girl with sexual or flirtatious intent. In the past, I had trouble going up to young girls and approaching them. I had to associate the approach with burning in Hell, as well as the burning romantic desire that motivated the approach. I'm left with just sexual fantasies and a healthy aversion to approaching a young girl for any reason. Every adult has my problem to varying degrees.

So you think you are immune to sexual desires towards children as an adult? I challenge you to masturbate to sexual thoughts about a child. Chances are, it will be your child, and the fantasy will be what you are capable of. The idea is to keep indulging in masturbatory fantasy about children until you feel comfortable with the concept. When you feel comfortable going there, you probably won't sexually abuse a child, and you'll know it, and you'll feel confident in that regard. I can't see myself approaching any other young girls, as I masturbate regularly to sexual thoughts of young girls to avoid the approach. But, it is good to utilize righteous avoidance, as it will always be unacceptable to discuss sexual attractions to children in public or out in the open.

Should sexual fantasies about children be part of open discussion? The answer is no. Fornication by way of obscenity is defined as anything coming from one's person with the intent to arouse, alarm, or offend, or else recklessly does the same. "Recklessly" means carelessness to the point of non-apology. If you are willing to apologize, any sexual topic is up for discussion. But, if someone is offended by the discussion, part of the apology is dropping the subject. Do you really want to risk offending others with your sexual speech? It is best to avoid that topic when out in the open, and wait until you are in private to discuss sexual matters. There is a proper place for discussing sexual thoughts about children, and that is with a mental health professional.

The depraved and decadent, defiled adults who rape or sexually assault children will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into torrents of Hell-fire! Repent!