Individual responsibility for adults attracted to children

Many adults blame pedophiles for the sexual abuse of children. This is a common falsehood believed mainly by more conservative individuals. Most adults, especially adult men, do not want to be seen as a pedophile, not knowing what pedophilia actually is. The fact of the matter is that all adults are responsible, since sexual assault and rape of children happens for the same reasons that it happens to adults - sexual entitlement. Any adult can become a child sexual abuser under the right/wrong conditions.

Pedophilia is a mental health disorder featuring preferential sexual attraction to children under age 14. Pedophilia is a genetic disorder usually associated with autism. What usually causes pedophilia is hormonal imbalances at the onset of puberty leading to the arrest of the sexual development of the child. Most genuine pedophiles state that they grew up, but their attractions did not. 3 out of 4 pedophiles choose not to sexually abuse children, according to research from the Canadian Centres for Addiction and Mental Health (CAMH).

If most pedophiles can simply choose not to abuse children, then how does sexual abuse occur? Location, location, location, but ultimately, a choice. An adult usually gets alone with a child they have attraction to, usually a pubescent child that most adults would be attracted to. They choose to be there, meaning they don't just happen to be there like they claim, and they bite off more than they can chew. The sexually entitled adult then makes the choice to sexually assault or rape the child, all of a sudden.

Why did they do it? They had sexual needs for children that they neglected. Adult sexual self-interest is a self-interest that should be satiated with solo masturbation, meaning every once and a while, you go there to comb out the gunk that is clogging the pipes. Then, you will have a way out when alone with an attractive child. 

When you aren't prepared for being sexually attracted to a child, you get an antisocial guilty conscience where you repress the desire until it can be repressed no more - then it comes out the other end, all at once, on the child. In practice, this is trying to hold yourself back until you can no longer, reducing your options so you have no way out, then sexually assaulting or raping the child. 

Attraction to children is treated as a taboo subject, and it shouldn't be. All adults should be, at the very least, aware of their sexual self-interest in children enough to self-regulate it. We should be aware of that side of us, albeit in an abstinent way. A rapist is someone who represses sexuality to the point where the sexuality comes out as entitlement on the other end, and attacks the victim. A child rapist is no different.

I myself abused children sexually, and I admit it openly. I committed sexual harassment against a child. My current understanding of child sexual abuse is inappropriate advances that range from leering to rape. I myself have given children advances that they perceived as unwanted and made them uncomfortable, meaning it annoyed them. Most of it I did at a local swimming area, and I had to unlearn the locational imprint on the place. I imprinted on the place, meaning I felt acclimated to loosening my self-control around children, approaching them for a sexual relationship. I followed young girls around the grounds of the swimming area. One girl tried to send smoke signals that she felt uncomfortable, but I only listened when told directly. I am entitled to nothing from children, as I have wronged them with my abuse. I am grateful that my victims have forgiven me for what I did, as I don't deserve any of it.

The adult fornicators of children that blame pedophiles for their abuse of children will BURN in everlasting Hell-fire and torrents! Repent!