How to deal with sexual thoughts about children

Pedophilia is the sexual attraction to children under age 14, with sexual attractions older than that age being considered moral in a flawed manner by sex researchers. Many pedophiles have sexual thoughts about children, perhaps their children or friends of their children. Many pedophiles struggle with these thoughts, beating themselves up about such thoughts.

Adult sexual entitlement is denoted by the Greek root word for general entitlement in the New Testament, πλεονέκτης (Latin: pleonektés), and refers to wanting sexual activity or a sexual relationship with a child to the point of seeking to impose said want onto a child under the age of majority in the relevant jurisdiction of said child target/victim, leading to parent/adult fornication (GRK: πορνεία). This anti-entitlement model is widely respected even by pedophiles who are atheist/agnostic, who make up the majority. 

We all, as adults, have unfair thoughts about children. Most adults have physically violent thoughts in relation to children when that child keeps screaming in the store. A pedophile may want to run away on some honeymoon with such an assertive child. Actual pedophiles like assertiveness in a child, namely one where she just won't shed their identity, no matter what, and that child identity includes immaturity, which is to be expected of a child that young. Normal adults punish such behavior, whereas pedophiles "reward" or seek to. They usually seek to.

The idea is to not to suppress or push out sexual thoughts about children, but take them head on. Acknowledge their existence, know they are there, but shed their moral significance, meaning thoughts alone are no moral problem. Sexually entitled intent towards children is what is the moral problem, but allowing yourself to have sexual thoughts about your children, as well as indulging now and then, makes the thoughts a non-issue. The problem is when you dwell on what they mean to the outside world. The outside world isn't looking in your thoughts.

Intent is when you want to have sex with a child to the point of plotting or taking the first steps to seek it out, or, more likely, putting yourself in a position where you'd easily "get away with" sex with children. Most sexual abuse is situational in nature, meaning one rape or sexual assault, usually with a repressed offender whose final straw was choosing to be in the same room as a child, alone without supervision, and then catastrophe happens. Why were they even there in the first place? Just make up a lie as to why you can't watch the child, or why you can't allow sleepovers. Why do you even have to be in the same room, in the same bed, with the child? Recklessness counts as entitlement in terms of guilty intent (mens rea) leading to guilty action and offense taken by the child (actus reus).

Pedophilic attractions are easy to deal with once entirely on the surface, meaning the high-low level where I am at as having the condition. You become a "predict" narcissist for yourself, predicting when you might encounter children, and planning ways around abusing them sexually like a fire-escape plan. It is like seeing a cone of choices around the child, and you just move the variables around to make sure nothing happens between you and her that would even offend her in the moment, out of entitlement. This means keeping self-interests in check, so that none are imposed out of the child in a way that might offend her. It is okay to have self-interest in relation to children, and even to ask children to do favors such as clean up their room and put their plate in the sink (not that they'll do them, by any guarantee), but asking a child to do anything sexual with you is entitlement, or else asking them to endure your sexual feelings. Locational and verbal self-interest is what I watch, meaning where I am, and when an attractive child is around, knowing to shut up except on her cue.

Adult power and control also has a reverse expression, meaning one that appoints children as caregiver beyond her years, in a way that is burdensome to the child victim. Sometimes, control is from beneath, and involves a mooch and shapeshifter which most autistic child molesters are. Most abuse their own children, seeing them as heroic parent figures, clinging to them, burdening her with his every trauma and fear. Think a grown man hiding behind a little girl, shaking like a dog, saying "I'm scared! Please, save me from those cops" and she says "Nope" calmly, and then he screams like the gods have come down on him. Justice well done. That could have been me if I didn't stop myself. I am referring to a "paws" abuser, meaning they literally beg with paws motions *at the beginning* of the interrogation, usually when the police and CPS first arrive. They have a form of autism where they can use valid trauma in a way that is manipulative in the form of antisocial "emphatic", and are usually entitled traumatics. Love is bondservice to children, and thus children should not love their parents - parents are charged with that burden...Usually, it is a rickety home that smells like rotten eggs and cat feces. Usually, it comes alongside behavioral and other forms of neglect. The little guys are the ones you have to worry about, not the big guys, with clinical pedophiles these days. In the past, autism was repressed. Now it is way out in the open, too much in the form of political correctness. 

Sexual activity with children will never be okay. Opposing Parental Entitlement advocates a nationwide age of consent of 18. An age of consent did exist in ancient Israel, and the Greek root words πορνεία (Latin: porneia) and ύπερακμνός (Latin: huperakmos) See 1 Cor. 6:18, 7:36 respectively. The Greek root word πορνεία (Latin: porneia) "lifts up" all of the sex crime statutes under the Mosaic Law, summed up as any sexual activity within a legally recognized marriage. Not all pedophiles have these values as put in this paragraph, but most pedophiles, particularly the less vocal ones, agree with me on the contact issue. If you believe sex with children should ever be legalized, you will be shunned from my midst, and condemned to eternal Hell-fire! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand, you fornicators and false pedophiles!