Why shyness is a good character quality in a parent

 Many people hold to the stereotypical parent, meaning the abusive stereotype towards children. Laughing about children. Laughing at children. Brushing off "anti-spanking PC police". It is a loud stereotype of parent. The little a parent talks, and stays shut up for their child's needs, the less entitlement a parent has.

It says in Hebrews 12:11 KJV:

Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: neverthess afterwards it yieldeth the peaceable fruit unto righteousness which is exercised thereby.

The Greek root word translated "chastening" is παιδεία (Latin: paideia) and refers to discipline, meaning one that admits its evil, depraved nature - think "I am evil" gaslighting imposed by God, leading to the hourglass treatment. The Greek root word translated "grievous" and is denoted by the Greek root word λυπέ (Latin: lupé). This commitment isn't for children, in terms of Christian family law, but the parents. It says in Ephesians 6:4 KJV:

And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath, but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

The Greek root word translated as "nurture" and translates the same as "chastening" in Heb. 12:11, παιδεία. Nurture means discipline, namely self-discipline in the parent, in the form of co-regulation. "Co-regulation" refers to centering and disciplining oneself, stifling one's child abusive impulses, modeling the concept of being strict on oneself to children. Attachment parenting was the norm of parents in ancient Jewish culture. Punishment of a child was illegal, and punishment of adults within a judicial setting was very rare. The Greek root word translated νουθεσία (Latin: nouthesia) and refers to setting limits and boundaries with children, not a literal rod of correction. It refers to how children were disciplined - the rod of nurturing and warmth was considered the long alternate of the rod of correction and firmness, meaning usually a firm "no" or similar setting of a negative boundary. Children were simply scolded verbally then, and even then not all the time. If you set too many boundaries, such as the word "no", the limits lose their strength. Childish behavior in children should be excused until a later date, when an adult can reason with them as to the consequences...Rambunctiousness, running around, and screaming in joy, whereas parents are to shut up and listen when the child comes to them with a concern.

How can you know that a parent is behaving in accordance with these principle? They are silent, and attendant in their duties as a parent. The children drag the parents to new places they'd like to see, and direct the day's activities on days off, to the degree that they wish. Such parents almost never argue over the small things with children, allowing their life to be led by their child, with dedication to their child. All visible by silence and quietness in the parent.

The depraved and entitled parents will be cast into torrents of fire and brimstone, suffering the second death! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!