Many parents think they love their children, when they do not. Most parents in this country hate their children, but claim to love them. Love is a verb. Hate is a verb as well - one of omission, when we don't work on our sin nature in relation to children.
The contextual understanding of hared of a child is something the child or a bystander imposes on the child, not something the offender declares. It says in Colossians 3:21 KJV:
Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they become discouraged.
The Greek root word denoting child hatred or childism is ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) and refers to the slightest of personal slights perceived by the child from an adult, meaning including a much older child in the child's position m society.
When your child shouts "I hate you", that means you hate them, and they perceive it as such, whether that is your intent or not towards a child. Most children rebel when they perceive entitlement or abuse from a parent, with entitlement being any intent to commit a moral crime, meaning not just wanting, but wanting to the point of seeking to impose said want onto a child. Whenever you want something from a child, enough to go on to seeking it out, or defending it as a "right", you are entitled.
The idea is to apologize for hating your child. If a child hated my hatred of them, and that perception was unintended, I'd feign an apology to get by, but either way, it would be my fault or no fault, due to the child's minor age.
Child abuse, at the lowest, most rudimentary understanding, is any antisocial "assumption" in a child in terms of traits, personality, and interest. It is using pro-social fork judgment, meaning seeing two or more options as to where outcomes could go, testing for all outcomes, usually by "many ways" gaslighting, which is positing your understanding of the events, for either being affirmed or corrected, judging by the reaction of the defendant. One should not assume anything about their child, and not get offended by anything their child does, and start their gentle parenting journey their.
Let the parents BURN! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!
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