Self-worth vs. self-esteem in parenting - Why parents are inherently worthless

The debates between the left and the right are a facade for another, hidden debate, between self-esteem activists and us Christian conservatives who support the concept of self-worth instead. The two are different. I support self-worth in parents, and self-esteem in children. A parent is useless if they don't be the light and salt for their child, being there to be the safe people to talk to, as righteous adults who care more about their children than anything else in the whole wide world.

A parent, inherently speaking, is worthless, as determined by the child. Each member of society has a job to do, and parenting is a very important job, so individual parents must earn their worth. I am worthless in relation to children, but maybe someone else can point out some worth, and children are at the top of that heirarchy, because they have been at the bottom of society for years.

Self-esteem is about your right to feel good. A child has a right to feel good because they are not responsible adults, but simply children, and cutting them that breaks cushions them for a resilient adulthood, slowly allowing them to sever the umbilical cord, and then prove their worth to the world, once they are adult. Parents are adults, and therefore they are not allowed to demand self-esteem, but either earn their worth or hate themselves righteously, for the entitled spoogs and specks that parents are inherently, without practice in goodness.

Look at that child that trusts you more than anyone else, dear gentle parents! What a beautiful sight! That little girl or boy can talk to you about anything! Anything! Anything! Anything! Wasn't all that hard work worth it? "Worth it" is self-worth. My use of the Christian doctrine of original sin convicted me, and thus was worth it.

Are you worth it as a parent? If you are one of ours, certainly. Otherwise, you are worthless, and simply are a creation of God, and not one of His children. However, we will expand, and conquer the world, banning spanking everywhere, and it will all blow back on rhe United States of America, because it is banned here already under Christian law, because God's Law is above the law of the land. 

The Greek root word πλεονέκτης (Latin: pleonektés) and refers not only to wanting something from a child, but wanting things to the point of seeking to impose on said child, leading to theft/abuse. Parental entitlement is the number one cause of child abuse, meaning most all abusers are a parent to the child in some way, even externally, and most are custodial parents, in fact. All child abuse comes from parents owing things from children, or else other dereliction of duties by disregarding needs.

Let the worthless, unworthy, and entitled parents burn! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!