Why shyness is a good trait in a parent

 Many parents today are entitled. You can tell who they are in the store, namely the ones that shout and scream like a loudmouth at their children. Generally, the louder the mouth of the parent, the more entitled they feel towards their children, generally. Parents should shut up and be quiet, and let their children speak, and scream and yell perhaps.

It says in Ephesians 6:4 KJV:

And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to anger, but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

The Greek root word translated "nurture" is παιδεία (Latin: paideia) and refers to the chastening of the Lord in relation to your child, meaning being convicted of how evil one is in relation to a child, merely for existing in relation to children, struck with reverent fear (GRK: ψοβός), leading to submission to the every vulnerable need of children. What ultimately convicts parents? Damages imposed on children incidentally yet wrongfully, denoted by the Greek root word παροργιζο (Latin: parorgizo) and refers to the slightest of personal slights perceived by a child from an adult. Be convicted, and be struck in terror of that child's needs, for you were born in original sin, and are to loathe your risk and parent nature until the end of time!

It says in Hebrews 12:5-8 KJV:

And ye have forgotten the exhortation which speaketh unto you as unto children, My son, despise not the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when thou art rebuked of him: For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth. If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as sons: for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not? But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, are ye bastards, and not sons.

The Greek root word here is the same as in Eph. 6:4, παιδεία. The Greek root word translated "scourgeth" is μαστιγόω (Latin: mastogoó) and refers literally to the rod of correction. However, corporal punishment in the Bible was strictly judicial in nature, and non-existent as a method of church discipline. This refers, figuratively, ultimately to painful lessons for parents, in this context. Your child saying "I hate you" should NOT make you defensive, but should make you search your soul as to what let down your child, presuming guilt in yourself. It is being turned like a circular pinwheel by your child's criticisms and upsets, being in full subjection to her lawful and binding orders. It is a feeling of righteous terror, meaning terror that comforts, allowing one to see children as extensions of God. A child's angry criticism is like a thunderbolt striking you down, terrorizing you for doing wrong, but in a way that you thank her later for the boundary set. Children self-protect. Adults abstain.

All of these attitudes lead to shyness in a parent. It is a convicted state where you shut up, and let the child demand needs from you. You are silent as a form of penance for existing as an adult in relation to children, knowing you are guilty for your membership in a group of people that have kept children down since the beginning of time. Children's rights never existed fully, anywhere, but can exist fully, everywhere. It takes, using our nation's founding values, knowing the wickedness of the parent attached to you, and chastening it away from it's depraved sin nature. Shyness is strength, especially when a child is constantly nagging you, and you are nothing but patient and kind in return, knowing that's how children are, so don't criticize or judge. It is a passive attitude of being dragged into their lives, their needs, and their benign wants. Parents are to show discipline to their children by example.

WE are pedophile survivors of lawful corporal punishment, and YOU shall obey God's Law, which *I* prosecute you for, dear parents. "Reasonable chastisement" doesn't exist, and the good Lord said not to provoke a child to anger. Let the parents burn!