Is it okay to be a pedophile?

Is it okay to be a pedophile? And a children's rights advocate? Depends on your definition of "being". Being a pedophile, by the children's rights definition, is not something you want to be known as. However, that is one way to be a pedophile. I am one. I don't merely have one. Think the 8 ball submerged in water. 

The word "pedophile" does not exist in the Bible. You will find no trace of it anywhere. Parents are found in the Bible, but not in their present-day form. It says in Colossians 3:20 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in all things, as is well-pleasing unto the Lord.

The Greek root translated "parents" γονεύς (Latin: goneus) and refers to parents as they were understood in the biblical context, which refers to parents being servants to their children, with Christian love being mutual submission between parents and children. This refers to attachment-based parenting in ancient Israel and other ancient Hebrew cultural settings, where parents didn't brag about their parent status.

The idea in true biblical parenting is to hide the fact that you are a good parent, and emphasize your faults and shortcomings as a parent, and celebrating the reformation of a parent.

A pedophile is a parent, and an antisocial parent at that, as all parents are. The idea is to turn an antisocial parent pro-social in nature. The way to do this is simple - self-diagnose as a pedophile, and then use that label as a cartiledge to improve oneself and one's risk of harming children, sexually or otherwise. 

It is taking up a label, and owning up to it, in order to protect children from abuse. This is done by turning the protective instincts inwards, thus learning to stop myself from committing acts of child sexual abuse. Pedophilia can lead to child sexual abuse, with 3 out of 4 pedophiles in North America not abusing a child. It is a lower-level tendency than physical/verbal aggression, and thus can be controlled easier, as it is "stuck in a radiator" so to speak. The more securely you have the parental strand of sexual aggression stuck in the parent itself, with proper knowledge about consent and child development, the more likely the pedophile is to not abuse.

Pedophilia is a hormonal imbalance associated with autism spectrum disorders. Usually, age-oriented psychosexual development gets stuck once hormones from puberty come in. I had my first orgasm at age 11, and then I became a pedophile. No girl made me. It's called hormones. It's called genetics. It is okay to be a pedophile, meaning the non-offending variety. However, you abuse a child, and you're dead.