A pedophile is an individual with a psychiatric disorder involving attraction to children under age 14, with the word "pedophile" not being an objective moral statement, but simply pointing out that an individual has a subjective mental health label, and otherwise, I am simply Max. I hold the label against me a lot, as it is a pathological self-diagnosis. Would I consider it a sexuality? Never to act on, but maybe a neutral one that is there, meaning away from children no matter what, documented mainly in scientific textbooks but seen on the objective surface as a mental disorder. "Neutral" means I don't think it is a good thing, but rather insignificant at its base, non-offending stage. I do not plan on going around educating the complex, or my community, about my issue, since they don't need to be confronted with that...Ultimately, "pedophile" is just a label. All it tells you is that I have a mental disorder, and one that is very responsible in nature. The reason why I go with my mother a lot is because I don't drive.
Most parents who commit child abuse struggle against "stress". It is denoted by the Greek root word denoting entitlement is πλεονέκτης (Latin: pleonektes),and comes out as controlling, manipulative, or demanding behavior such as punishment for wrongdoing. In a pedophile, however, entitled stress comes out as "escaping" from children and sexually abusing them, usually in an adultification/spousification situation.
All abuse comes from the same entitled place - meaning parents, not pedophiles, and only strictly referring to the entitled cord. I hate them all. All parents. At least at the cord level, meaning that entitled thread that comes out like an extension cord, shocking the child, and strangulating them in other cases. Keep that cord in, parents, or you become one by my standard and classification, and are damned for eternal Hell-fire. Gentle parents keep their cord in, and conflate the encasement to that cord with proper, evidence-based research and knowledge into child development.
What does it feel like not to abuse a child? Calm. Everyday life. I know certain situations with children are not for me, therefore learning commonsense. Heatstroke. Old-timer. That type of caution. Just like an older woman might sit in a home with the air conditioner running, because "I won't risk it. It's just too hot to carry groceries in". Same with me when I interact with children, at all, without their consent. The religious language you see is the Christian conviction that drives that risk-aware parenting attitude around children. That's how it appears on the surface. Traditional conviction/conditioning, not fear-based as of now. I've moved beyond fear, like an hourglass, knowing I am a better person than I was 3 years ago. That benefits children as well.
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