Pro-social silence, pro-social self-control, pro-social self-loathing: Proper parenting attitudes for any parent

Many parents believe in feel-good parenting, while accusing us gentle parents of taking the same way. Parents want to "take a breather" and "put mom first" and so forth, like in the many "mom magazines". I don't believe in putting myself first, as an adult in relation to children. Maybe the safety ventilator on an airline, but that's about it. Children first, parents last. I am shut up by the Lord, so that the children can speak and order to me their needs. I am silent in relation to them, and struck in reverent awe and terror to their every vulnerable need.

I myself am conditioned by the Lord to be a certain way. I am silenced, quietened, and shamefaced in terms of existence, particularly, in this context, referring to existence in relation to children. It says in Hebrews 12:11 KJV:

Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous, nevertheless afterwards it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.

The Greek root word translated "chastening" is παίδεια (Latin: paideia) and refers to self-discipline in a parent, meaning shutting up and letting the children speak and have freedom. Discipline is learning from mistakes as a parent/adult, with the Greek root word translated λυπέ (Latin: lupe), referring to righteous pain and anguish, waking oneself up "to smell the coffee", leading to self-centered, discipline, and self-control in relation to children. 

It is an ashamed conditioning and temperament, where one hates oneself righteously in relation to children, in a convicted and fearful manner, like an hourglass. I am broken down by the lawful and binding orders of the child. Heeding the needs and orders of a child takes one outside of their comfort zone, thus chastening oneself up be a stronger, centered, more disciplined an

The Tenth Commandment forbids coveting, and is repeated in the New Testament by the Greek root word πλεονέκτης (Latin: pleonekés) and refers to the entitled attitude of "I am a good, loving parent, and so children owe things from me", including with even a conversation. Parental entitlement is wanting things from a child to the point of seeking to impose said item upon a child, leading to theft/child abuse. This entitled intent is the intent that leads up to the moral crime of child abuse. It says in Colossians 3:21 KJV:

Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they become discouraged.

The Greek root word translated ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) and refers to short-term damages, such as pain (ex. from a needle-pin), shame (i.e. emotional abuse), defamation of character, and/or fornication, guided by a depraved and entitled adult nature. 

Discipline in parenting is about self-control in parenting, not forcing self-control on children before they are ready - exemplary teaching. Children, in ancient Israel, were with their mothers until a late age - age 6 in the case of boys, and age 12 in the case of girls. Punishment of any kind was illegal ouitside of proper routes of justice, and never with a child under the age of majority.

Let the entitled, pro-spanking parents burn! Let them suffer in the lake of fire and brimstone, suffering the second death! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!