Children self-protect, adults abstain: How to prevent child sexual abuse (before it happens)

It is the worst fear of many parents. Their child fell prey to a child sexual abuser. However, the main model of child protection today comes in the form of collective responsibility. However, all adults have an individual responsibility to abstain from sexually abusing a child. Children have the right to protect themselves from child sexual abuse. Whenever a child refuses to go with a certain adult, think child rapist, and listen to your child.

Children self-protect means that children have the right to avoid an adult due to the child perceiving risk in an adult. Most children refuse to go with a sexual abuser, and this avoidance happening out of nowhere usually. Children never lie about abuse. They don't try to ruin the lives of adults. All a child wants is to be believed. If your child confides into you about an adult being creepy, keep them safe from the adult in question.

Adults have a duty to abstain from sexually abusing a child, in the form of righteous avoidance. Part of righteous avoidance is righteous masturbation. The Greek root word denoting lust is έπιθυμέω (Latin: epithumeo) and refers not to any old sexual desire, but to sexual entitlement. Sexual entitlement is defined as, officially speaking, sexual want, to the point of sexually motivated approach. It is okay to look the look, and even think the think later, but if you find yourself doing the deed, you should not have even approached her. Even when the child was right there, it is the deed that counts. Doing the deed is defined as flirting or propositioning with children, or else touching a child anywhere on their body with sexual intent. 

I myself am a pedophile, and I make the conscious choice every day to not sexually abuse a child. I can tell that most adults don't take that responsibility seriously like that. The main way to abstain from sexual abuse as an adult is to masturbate righteously, without pornography, in order to stay out of trouble. Most of us as pedophiles are the last people to harm a child, with me being the exception - I myself was an antisocial "flirt" in relation to children. An abuser pedophile acts on the surface in most cases, meaning in the form of sexual harassment. It is one thing to admit to being a pedophile, but when you are obvious about your advances towards a child, maybe it is time to reel things in. I myself was an obvious abuser, meaning a joke pedophile with a kernel of truth to the joke. 

Some children are blind to the risk of child sexual abuse towards them. Those children either are clinically pedophiles or else are predestined to become a pedophile once they reach age 16. Most pedophilic children don't have a natural fear of being sexually abused by an adult. 

Every single adult is guilty in relation to children, as any old adult could sexually abuse a child under the right/wrong conditions. The key to avoiding sexually abusing a child is to righteously masturbate to sexual thoughts of children, Usually, adults can completely abstain once they spend away the sexual desires towards children. Most adults are attracted to teenagers of the opposite sex, with 20% of men having a secondary sexual desire for prepubescent children. Only 1-2% of the male population are pedophiles, and they are already aware of their desires towards children, with child sexual abuse coming from an unaware level of attraction to children. The only way out of trouble with children is to make yourself aware of your adult attraction to children, meaning spend it away until it is all gone. If it doesn't go away after a few tries, you are a pedophile and need to own up to that. 

A pedophile is an individual with a primary or exclusive sexual preference for children under age 14, with this attraction usually visible as an individual with autism whose specialty in terms of knowledge and expertise is children. If they get along great with children, despite being autistic, think pedophile. Most autistic adults do not get along well with children at all. Most pedophiles fit the autism acceptance profile of child smarts, with most of these pedophiles supporting children's rights. Pedophilic adults are amongst the least of adults to harm a child in any way. These pedophiles exist today, meaning not only in ancient times, with me fitting the diagnostic criteria to a T. I myself am self-diagnosed as a pedophile, meaning it is a self-diagnosis that denotes my struggle with sexual desires towards children. Pedophilia can be managed much like any other mental illness, and usually, they only need a therapist in order to unload baggage and having their struggles listened to, like listening to someone's heartbeat. I myself have a mother and a therapist to talk to, as well as a group of trauma survivors. That's all a pedophile needs - someone to listen to them. It is a myth that pedophilia can only be treated in an inpatient setting, as a pedophile simply needs listening and validation, in the form of compassionate empathy. 

Aren't we all guilty of abuse towards children as adults? Most adults can easily be profiled based on how children react to them. The main type of abuser is the mean adult. A sexually entitled adult is called a creep by a child. Whenever an adult is called mean or creepy by a child, think abuser of some sort. I myself was called creepy by a child, or else was given that treatment by a child. Maybe I have earned my keep in relation to children since then, but I don't say. 

The depraved and decadent, defiled adults who rape or sexually assault children will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let then descend into torrents of Hell-fire, prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent!