Children self-protect, adults abstain: Individual responsibility for adults attracted to children

Many parents think that pedophiles are a risk to children. This is a common belief amongst American parents. Most adults claim innocence in relation to children, and blame their political opponents for being "pedophiles". However, the fact of the matter is that every single adult is guilty in relationship to children merely for existing. Children have the right to protect themselves from sexual abuse, with all adults having the individual responsibility to abstain from child sexual abuse.

Most adults are more at-risk for sexually abusing a child than pedophiles. Most child sexual abuse comes from a secondary attraction to children that the abuser denies. Most sexual abusers deny their sex drive towards children by refusing to masturbate to sexual thoughts of children.

Sexual abuse comes from a criss-cross sexual dynamic in the family home. Fathers usually are attracted to their daughters, in a mutually unrequited fashion. Most boys are attracted to their mother, but usually as a dead end. Most child sexual abuse follows this primal pattern of rape that is a mainstay of out peacekeeping past.

The Greek root word denoting lust in the Bible is έπιθυμέω (Latin: epithumeo) and refers not to ordinary sexual desire, but instead sexual entitlement. Sexual entitlement is defined as, officially speaking, sexual want, to the point of sexually motivated approach. It is okay to look the look, and then think the think later. But, there is a big difference between thinking the think and doing the deed. At minimum, the deed to be avoided is flirting or propositioning a minor child. However, any touching anywhere on a child's body for sexual reasons is also doing the deed. 

Children have the right to protect themselves from child sexual abuse, like only they can. Children, in most cases, refuse to go with an adult who poses a threat to children. When a child does want to go with the adult in question, think pedophile, but the right kind. Children almost always want to go with the pedophile, so that excuses that group of adults.

Most child sexual abuse happens not to young children, but to teenage girls. Being a pubescent child is a sensitive time in a child's lifetime, and it is sexually threatening to most adults. This alone is a recipe for disaster. The only way out is in - meaning the righteous masturbation about children. The idea is to go as low as you can in terms of age of fantasies, and then spend it away until it is all spent out. Then, the responsible choice would be to tend to that fantasy on occasion.

I myself am one of the more high-risk type of pedophile. Some abusers are pedophiles, bucking the trend, and I am one of them. I myself am an obvious abuser, meaning I made my crushes obvious to the child victim. It is good to identify as a pedophile, but it is not good to make your crushes obvious. I myself was fixated on a specific child, meaning one at a time, like train cars - and everyone around me hoped for the caboose. However, only 1 out of 4 pedophiles sexually abuse children. But, if you want to know which pedophiles are at risk, think mainly the little kind that is impulsive around children. Some pedophiles are in total denial of their pedophilia, in which case they make up a small minority of pedophiles. All abuser pedophiles such as me have the moral obligation to atone for the sin list that we have in relation to children. 

Most pedophiles are the last adults to sexually abuse a child. A pedophile is always aware of their desires towards children. Most sexually entitled adults are instead unaware of their sexual drive for children until it comes out sideways onto the child, like a ton of bricks. However, child sexual abuse is ultimately a lifestyle choice, as all an adult needs to do is masturbate to sexual thoughts of children. If you can be honest about those desires without jinxing yourself, you are not a threat to anyone. If you only have wet dreams about children, you might be a rapist, especially if your child's nudity threatens you. 

All adults have something to atone for in relation to children. Even if your atonement is simply being at-risk for sexually abusing children, you have something to atone for. Most adults have a sin list a mile long in relation to children, yet they blame their neighbor over themselves. Usually, adults are guilty of punishment of a child in some form, which can come in sexual format. I myself didn't ever punish a child, but I do hold onto blame for being called "creep" by a child. I might be earning my keep, gauging by how children want to go with me, but I don't say for sure. Most children are not afraid of me, but that is because of work I have done on myself. I still hold onto my sin list in relation to children, as a reminder of what not to do in relation to children. I was not always mister nice guy around children. I have a long track record of wronging and abusing children. 

The depraved and decadent, defiled adults who rape or sexually assault children will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into torrents of Hell-fire prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent!