Why abuser registries benefit pedophiles (and why we need to register them ALL)

Many people hold abuse registries as an anti-pedophile opinion. I am opposed to limiting registries to sex offenders, and want to see any adult who abuses a child put on that registry, and then have child abuse definitions expanded. There is a reason why I support registries as a pedophile, and it has nothing to do with anything I did wrong. Pedophiles are at high risk for child sexual abuse as children - and that is where the actual hysteria came from.

Where does the hysterical prejudice against pedophiles come from? Many think it comes from the movement where I sit. It does not. We just created a misnomer, knowing enough about the issue of child sexual abuse to know that most pedophiles were victims of child sexual abuse. In the 1970s, when our movement started, many people on the opposing end were calling themselves pedophiles when they didn't fit the diagnostic criteria for pedophilia. 

Pedophilia is a mental disorder, not merely a sexual orientation, and not a choice. The key to solving the issue of mental health stigma is to admit to pedophilia as a mental illness, and so I do. The main problem for actual pedophiles is that no therapist knows how to treat them. Most therapists do not know what, or rather who, a pedophile is. 

Where does this mental health stigma of pedophiles come from? Most pedophiles endure severe religious child abuse as a child, usually involving lurching behavior intended to stomp all over fantasies. Most pedophilic children are punished as children for their fantasies, many times through corrective rape. A large amount of pedophiles suffered child sexual abuse themselves, and they suffered it because they were a pedophile, and because a pedophile is an easy target for such abuse.

Pedophile victims of child abuse deserve justice. I support scrapping the old registry, and creating a new one for ALL abusers of children, and we can call it the parent registry, since most adults who abuse children wear the glorified title of parent. Most pedophile survivors of child abuse hate their parents with a vengeance, and carry around a "parent" trauma. Most pedophiles that I have dealt with at the Virtuous Pedophiles forum were anti-religious, and many hated me because I was a Christian. Many parent detectives are pedophiles, and they don't hide it. 

A pedophile never forgets abuse from parents. Parents are the offenders that need to be registered. We don't need to register people for things such as open lewdness or indecent exposure. Let's keep the registry to offenders who have actually abused someone, and expand it to every single parent and adult who has abused a child, and then change the law so that children can perceive their own abuse. The core of all survivors of parental abuse are pedophiles, as pedophiles remember their whole childhoods, enough to, many times, be very confrontational about their trauma. Pedophile trauma is very jaded. You hate adults in particular, because adults hate children, and you love children and never will stop loving children.

Maybe most sexual offenses against children are situational offenses, but why should we care about someone who made the wrong choice due to being irresponsible with their sexual health? All they had to do was whip it out and masturbate to the child crush, and then they would be cured. Most actual pedophiles know this, and do the right thing. An actual pedophile does not sexually abuse a child, and if they do, they don't deserve that label as a medical excuse for abuse. As an ordinary citizen with pedophilia myself, I don't care about a sex offender who groomed a child and made their life a living horror. I love children, and honor God's Law, and so I don't behave that way around children anymore (I did in the past). It makes me very angry to know that such an adult abused a child that way, and I only wish them well if they seek to reform their sexual hatred of children.

I myself am a sex offender, albeit an unregistered one. I bring up this topic a lot in order to warn people of my risk, and to be honest in a pro-social manner. In one location, I followed around young girls until they became annoyed and uncomfortable, thus a sexual offense under my Christian purity and cleanliness standards. I was obsessive and delusional about the child targets that I victimized, thinking I could actually go somewhere with an attraction to a child. I would have deserved to be registered for my crimes, if that was available, and in some countries (ex. United Kingdom, Iceland). I am a depraved and decadent sinner who is deserving of absolutely nothing, from children or anyone else, and am to be grateful for all the clemency that was shown to me.

What is pedophilia? Most pedophiles are not narcissists. Most pedophiles simply have a form of autism where their age-oriented sexual preferences correspond with the developmental level of the individual with autism, due to arrested emotional development. Most pedophiles simply have an autistic specialty in children, meaning they can relate to children more so than fellow adults, and may only want to be friends with children, isolating themselves from adults. Usually, pedophiles live on the fringes of communities, peaceably existing alongside their neighbors, while not talking to them and keeping to themselves. A pedophile has a gift with children, when they are non-abusive, and are born nurturers. I myself am very good with children, and don't find them annoying one bit. I love being around children in public venues, especially the attractive young girls! When someone with autism has infinite patience with children, think pedophile.

The depraved and decadent, defiled sex offenders who prey on children and commit fornications against them will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them BURN in torrents of everlasting Hell-fire! Repent!