How to help a pedophile deal with their disorder

Most people want to help pedophiles, or so they say. Most people are punitive with pedophiles with the intent of helping them, thus being help entitled themselves towards pedophiles. Some people say a pedophile is "beyond help". I know how to help a pedophile as a child advocate, because I myself have the disorder, and know what helped me.

What is pedophilia? Pedophilia is a mental health disorder featuring a primary or exclusive sexual preference for children under age 14. Pedophilia is a genetic disorder, and is hereditary along the same bloodlines as autism and alcoholism. Most pedophiles are not narcissists, but instead have a form of autism that is child-centered in nature. Usually, pedophiles are child-centered in a way a defense attorney or ombudsman would be towards a client who was falsely accused or otherwise maligned. Most pedophiles believe children are being persecuted, much like a children's rights survivor does, and lumps their own situation in with children, usually by opposing a parent figure. Usually, they are opposing their own parents, resenting and hating their parents for abusing them (usually within the law). Pedophilia usually denotes a specific personality complex, but in a way that usually is fairly harmless for children. An abuser pedophile does not see their part in the oppression of children, even though we all have contributed to the oppression and persecution of children in some way as adults. Most pedophiles are non-offending, meaning they acknowledge their mistakes in dealing with children, and work to treat children better.

How do you help a pedophile struggling with sexual and romantic feelings towards children? Compassionate listening strategies that work for trauma survivors also work for pedophiles. When you place a pedophile in the right listening environment, they heal on their own, and come to their own conclusions. Pedophilia is a progressive disorder, meaning, like autism, the symptoms of pedophilia improve over time.

Listening is an art in and of itself, and active listening is great for pedophiles. Pedophiles disclose their disorder and the issues surrounding it in clinical celebratory format, meaning they may need to unload about a crush on a child they have bottled up, or unwanted desires that trouble them. All you have to do is give them a place to unload their upsets and desires onto you. It almost never comes out like a bomb, but instead comes out like any other life problem, and it is more often than not a painful life problem for pedophiles. 

Let the depraved and decadent, defiled adult fornicators who blame pedophiles for their own abuse will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them be forever punished in torrents of Hell-fire! Repent!