Pro-social punching bag: How to deal with aggressive behavior

Many children these days are restrained and secluded in school and institutional settings. Also, parents tend to call the police, at least around here in Reading, Pennsylvania (where officers are trained in dealing with autism). There are alternatives to restraint with aggressive children. Pro-social punching bag is one of them.

Every single parent and adult is guilty in relation to children, and is deserving of DEATH and DESTRUCTION merely for existing in relation to children, with parents being meek and shamefaced in relation to children. Parents especially are to put children first, and themselves last, to the point of submission to children and their every need and benign want, expecting absolutely nothing in return from children, with children resting in the love and grace of parents. Unnecessary restraint and seclusion of a child who is mentally ill is unlawful under Christian law, and violates the doctrine of surrender to parents, which is one of rest. See Colossians 3:20-21 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to secure, vulnerable rest in the love and grace of parents. This means secure attachment of the policing form in relation to parents, as an ideal goal for parents to strive for. Children in biblical times occasionally did get aggressive, in which case mothers and fathers alike just took it, using total vulnerability gaslighting, known here as pro-social punching bag. What Hebrew and Christian mothers in particular did was allow the child to beat them up, then the parent started crying, which instinctively prompts the aggressive child to stop what they are doing, and also curb further aggressive outbursts. Children in biblical times were wrapped up next to mothers until late in life, meaning older children alternated between free play and closeness with mothers. This closeness was so intense that an aggressive child could just beat up fathers or mothers, and the parent would react vulnerably. Most vulnerability gaslighting is to attract the attention of a rescuer. Vulnerability gaslighting of children is to teach them the vulnerable harm of their actions by enduring them fully, allowing yourself to cry in your helplessness to your child. Very young children, meaning children under age 6, were picked up when they started becoming aggressive, and then were allowed to beat up their parents while being held in a basket hold, which is an acceptable restraint under Christian law.

The Greek root word translated "provoke...to anger" is ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) and refers to provocation to anger against a child, referring to the commandment to love your neighbor and not provoke them to anger, with children being your neighbor. This is ultimately defined as the slightest of personal offense, or by extension the slightest of unwanted touch, perceived by the child. This commandment was intended by the Apostle Paul and the surrounding legal context to prohibit all forms of punitive parenting, including punishment and control of any kind, including any spanking, corporal punishment, or restraint for aggressive behavior. Paul here was rebuking Greek Christian parents who misused Scripture such as the book of Proverbs to justify their pagan custom of spanking children that they brought into the church. The seven verses in Proverbs referring to the rod of correction are repealed verses, as they refer to a dated form of judicial corporal punishment - the 40 minus 1 lashes with the rod of correction. This punishment is alluded to in Hebrews figuratively, as the punishment was not applied literally as a form of legal punishment in the Early Church, even among the Hebrews. The rod was symbolic in ancient Jewish culture for enduring hardship, as it clearly means in Heb. 12:5-11.

Pro-social punching bag refers to an attachment parenting procedure, where the verbal and physical aggression of children is met by parents turning the other cheek, and allowing for children to bring them to peaceable tears of helplessness with their aggression. There are ways to protest aggression from children, but they are vulnerable. When your teenager gives you morning breath and slaps you across the face, remain calm and without resentment, and then say in tears "Why are you being so mean?. No child wants to cause that much pain in a parent, and if they do, they are being abused themselves actively. Most children would end up being frantic to make amends.

The depraved and entitled parents who provoke their children to anger will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them burn in the lake of fire and burning sulfur, which is the second death! Let them suffer God's Wrath in the everlasting Hell of fire and torment! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!