Sexual abuse often appears out of nowhere. It is linked not to pedophilia, but to sexual entitlement in adults, period. The main excuse of a sexually entitled adult for fornicating against a child is "I was in the wrong place, at the wrong time". That excuse doesn't fly with me or any survivor. Why were you even there? Why didn't you just get up and leave?
Child sexual abuse is a common form of abuse committed by an entitled adult, including sexually entitled parents who defile themselves in fornication next to their children, meaning it shouldn't be so hidden. With other forms of abuse, parent education exists to prevent the abuse from happening. Such can be the case with pedophiles and other adults sexually attracted to children.
People should be able to admit to being a pedophile, just like a parent can admit to being a toxic alcoholic and recover from it, like my abusive father admitted to alcoholism. Pedophilia, however, is easier to manage than alcoholism, as I am a pedophile, and I can just avoid abusing children.
How do I avoid abusing children? Again, location, location, location. That means I avoid locations where it could happen, meaning any place where I would be tempted to abuse a child sexually, I must stay far away from. At the same time, I admit to being a pedophile to further understand myself.
It is my belief that not everyone is going to understand pedophiles. Their parents? Yes, parents should be on board. Mental health professionals? Yes, they should be on board as well. Trauma survivors? They actually tend to be curious when you put the subject the right way. But not everyone is going to understand, and not everyone needs to know either. But, everyone who reads my posts can know that, yes, I am a pedophile, for pro-social honesty's sake
If you are a pedophile or otherwise an adult sexually attracted to children, DO NOT be alone with a child in any capacity, and society already allows for that to be a stated rule and policy for a man in particular. Instead, channel those sexual thoughts about the child you like into fantasy, and practice want avoidance otherwise. Avoid the child at the want level, practicing wanting nothing from the children, as no adult should want anything from a child. I myself don't want anything from a child for the most part, with my main self-interest involving being in their company. I just like being around them, wherever they are, whenever I am around. It is a pleasure to be there, shut up and silent, but being in their presence nonetheless. That's all I need. If you get to that point as a pedophile, you should be good. It isn't yearning for a child in public, but being happy and content in their presence, grateful that they are even there in the same establishment with you.
The depraved and entitled adult fornicators who provoke children to anger will not inherit the Kingdom of Heaven! Anything sexually entitled intent that the child perceives is sexual abuse! Let them BURN in the lake of fire and brimstone, descending into a fire of Hell and torrent! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!
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