Why parents are the abuser of pedophiles

Many people in the United States support pedophiles, usually in the form of civil libertarian or autism awareness advocacy. Most people who claim to be pedophile advocates, sadly, still blame children's rights movements. Most pedophiles do not blame children's rights, but instead we support the rights of the children we love. I hate parents in a double-sided way, meaning they hate their children, even when their children, especially when they are pedophiles.

I don't feel hated as a pedophile, unlike most. I don't have prejudicial parents either, but supportive parents. They are there if you need to unload about a child who is attractive, yet can't have as a girlfriend. I am never praised for being a pedophile. We pedophiles don't want praise, and don't need it. We simply need listening to, in a reflective and validating manner. 

3 out of 4 pedophiles in North America do not sexually abuse children, according to the research at the Canadian Centres for Addiction and Mental Health, Sexual Behaviors Clinic in Toronto, Canada. Most pedophiles are youth rights supporters, by way of quiet example, meaning they vow not to abuse children in other ways as well. Most pedophiles oppose ALL child abuse, regardless of status, in a litigious manner, perhaps to a fault. A pedophile is simply someone who fetishizes children and childhood, usually in an introverted, low-level manner, while on the surface appearing as simply the guy who can easily talk to children..

Most pedophiles have a common childhood trauma that I dodged, which is a form of sexual abuse called sexual shaming. It is a form of masturbatory shaming that hurts them very badly, especially since most pedophiles are exclusive and never were in a relationship with a woman. We call these prejudicial parents, and their fate is the fire of Hell.

Most of the understanding parents, in my experience, have been attached, gentle parents, and they usually don't understand until after it hits them, and their child happens to be a pedophile. Usually, when a child is being accepted by their parents, the first stage is denial. My mother thought it was a phase. But, as the child gets older, the parent can deny it less, in which case they, at the same time, see the effort to not offend a child common among pedophiles. 

However you treat children is how you will treat pedophiles, as even an adult pedophile is received, according to attachment theory, as immature by non-pedophilic adults, meaning most people who go solely on their instincts about a pedophilic child just chalk it up to immaturity. Usually, the child is diagnosed as on the autism spectrum or else identified as such, and the immaturity reflects the immature capacities of their case of autism. I am developmentally delayed in a way that matches up with my age of attraction due to my autism, meaning the peak age (age 11-12) is where I am stuck due to my autism. Most people who are supportive to pedophiles, in my experience, are anti-spanking. Most pro-spank advocates want to put a vulnerable traumatic pedophile through boot camp, whereas on the anti-spanking side, most gentle, attached parents are also attached to pedophiles in a concerned way.

How to understand your pedophilic child? A pedophile is a parent conflated with sexuality, with the pedophilia being the thread, with the thread being encased with helpful parenting information. Whatever parenting style a pedophile chooses shapes the entitlement of the pedophile, with non-entitled parenting choices being the healthiest for pedophiles, meaning pro-social parental entitlement being bad for pedophiles, because it blurs the boundaries by appointing the pedophile as authority over the child, which can be misused. I am an attachment parent to children, in a detached way, and it is easy to avoid harming children. It's like slapping suntan oil on their skin, meaning connotational pedophilia. I see it as morally neutral to have sexual thoughts about children, and so they are just there, and I know I am not a sinner unless I form the intent to abuse a child in any way, meaning intent that would be defended in any way. Otherwise, I am good, with children, and with God, with children being His extension. Chances are, if your child is anti-spanking, you are too in some capacity, and their attractions are connotational. Entitled pedophiles abuse children, meaning those who think they are either invincible or deny their attractions, and get in a situation where they are alone with a child. 

My relationship with my mother has improved since disclosing my pedophilic disorder to her. Now she knows everything about me or can know, which is God's order in terms of surrender to parents. Surrender all your information to parents, with the listening ear of parents earning such respect. I can talk about my pedophilic condition any time with my mother, and she usually listens, but doesn't have much to say. Don't say anything if you want to be supportive of a condition like that. Let the pedophile speak, and assume nothing apart from what they say about themselves. I was treated like a struggling parent by my therapist, and I think that is what a lot of pedophiles need.

Pedophile privilege is a two-way street, meaning once a pedophile shows privilege to survivors, survivors should show privilege to pedophiles. What we ask is pro-social ignorance, meaning do not treat them in a manufactured way, but listen to them and validate them, perhaps with a reassuring nod, listening and occasionally asking questions. There is really nothing you can say to us to make it go away or make it better. We, as pedophiles, are on our own, and a non-entitled, non-offending pedophile doesn't need a caretaker to babysit them. We monitor ourselves, and if we act out and abuse a child, face the legal and social penalty. Most survivors seem to understand my condition in an honest way that follows their intuition as gentle parents, meaning they claim to know nothing about my condition. They want pointers, at this point, on how to deal with pedophiles, with the error being doing too much and then getting burnt out. Take it easy, dear survivors. All we need is listening and someone to talk to, and the rest we do ourselves. With any good therapist, there is an 80/20 rule, meaning you do 80% of the work, and your therapist does 20%. Pedophilia may in fact need even less supports from therapists and mental health professionals. 

The enemy to pedophiles everywhere is a specific type of parent, known as a prejudicial parent. They are the lower, more common rung of the hierarchy of pedophile haters, with the most rabid being pedophiles themselves, but in denial, meaning child sexual abusers/adult fornicators. Prejudicial parents usually have more than a whiff that their child is a pedophile, and punish their child for things such as masturbation and use of depictions of children. Think snatching a department store catalogue away, then swatting or spanking the child in some way. These are actions that impose false purity doctrine on pedophiles. "Purity parents" are the worst abusers of pedophiles. I myself am a purity parent, but in the right way, meaning I just don't have sex outside of marriage. 

The Greek root word denoting parental entitlement in the New Testament is πλεονέκτης (Latin: pleonektés) and refers to wanting things of a child, including changing a sexual preference that they did not choose and cannot change, to the point of seeking to impose said want onto a child. A prejudicial parent of pedophiles wants to "cure" their child of the disorder in the form of religious sexual abuse by way of sexual shaming. Pedophilia is not a good thing, meaning it is a mental illness, but it is the hand they are dealt, and they were persecuted by their parents for being born with a lifelong disorder. This is especially common in overtly religious households where they have similar values to me except in terms of parenting. 

Let the prejudicial parents BURN! Let them burn in the lake of fire and burning sulfur! That glorified title does not excuse child abuse, regardless of if the victim is a pedophile or non-pedophile! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand! A pedophile can be a child too, and if you abuse that child, you be damned!