Original sin: Why this applies to parents more than children

Many parents are punitive towards their child, and that is due to a longstanding church policy of pro-social child hatred. Most parents do not understand who in the family - the parent or the child - is culpable for having a depraved sin nature. What is sin? Wanting while demanding. Isn't that the nature of all of us, as adults in relation to children?

Every single adult is guilty for there mere existence in relation to children, and are to struck with reverent fear and terror denoted by the Greek root word ψοβός (Latin: phobos), leading to conviction to surrender to God through one's child, knowing that one has wronged them and also does not understand what it is like to be a child, leading to submission to children as their enemy, just as mankind is the enemy of God, paying due penance to children as to God, merely for existing in relation to children, deserving of punishment for that existence, being grateful for one's non-existence in relation to children, while still being their time-slave and caregiver.

The Greek root word denoting the Tenth Commandment, and cross-referencing said commandment, is πλεονέκτης (Latin: pleonektés) and literally refers here to parental entitlement, namely the entitled attitude of "I am the parent, and I have the right to respect from my child (and everyone else)" leading to seeking to impose said want onto a child. Figuratively literally, the word points to our flawed human nature, meaning the desire to want things you can't have, to the point of demanding and rebelling, in this case irreverent rebellion against the child's needs. It is in the nature of every parent/adult to want things from children. Children are the ultimate judges of adults in this regard. 

Original sin is the groundwork in which the family is set up on, in terms of parent guilt. See Colossians 3:20-21 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well-pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they become discouraged.

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to providing custody, meaning secure, vulnerable rest and trust in the love and grace of parents, with children demanding their needs and parents supplying, with children ruling parents from beneath and being doted on like royalty, with children owing absolutely nothing to parents in return, but nonetheless with children showing gratitude and thanksgiving by emulating the example and momentary instruction of a parent. The Greek root word translated "provoke...to anger" is ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) and literally translates to "stirring up", which refers to the Jewish idiom "stirring the pot", which refers to the offenses under the Eighth Commandment, meaning torts and damages under the Law of Moses such as theft and kidnapping, and being perceived by the child as the slightest of personal offense coming from entitlement, with the entitlement guided by the offense of the child, with only a credible apology to the child, out of compassionate empathy, disproving abuse, in which case it never was to begin with. Otherwise, a child's perception of offense colors the adult's attitudes and behavior, meaning any behavior or attitude imposed on a child to the point of offense is entitlement.

Parents are to char themselves, then replenish in seeing the fruits of their toil. See Hebrews 12:11 KJV:

Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: but afterwards it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.

The Greek root word παιδεία (Latin: paideia) and refers to the chastening of the Lord which parents "are exercised thereby", coming from toil and hardship, namely the Greek root word translated "grievous" is λυπέ (Latin: lupe) and refers to parents chastening themselves up and centering themselves in the grief and toil of parenting, and the restrained exercised thereby. Parents were born in original sin, and so one must admit it, accepting the chastening of the Lord, with the personal results in parents being spectacular...and then the children follow suit! It is chastening up oneself in the Lord, holding space for children to do the same, then listening to and validating their every emotion, positive or negative, with their upsets reassured through reflective listening, meaning repeating what they vent to you in short gulps for clarification, and otherwise refraining from advice unless asked for or else is urgent. Let children find their own answers in the shelter of parents. 

Children, too, have their own sin nature, but it isn't binding, meaning it is an ignorant type of sin nature, to the point where they can't find the intent to sin, and since children cannot find the intent to sin, they cannot be guilty of sin, thus children having no sin count until they reach adulthood. Children simply are imperfect human beings, as we all are, and need boundaries and limits like all adults do. The difference is that children aren't responsible for their sins, due to not being able to take responsibility due to their young age and developmental level, thus children should simply be given momentary instruction as a test to see whether they can follow an instruction, and if not, just let it go, or else, if necessary, keep them safe through close supervision.

The depraved and entitled parents who are punitive or permissive will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them suffer in the lake of fire and burning sulfur, descending downwards, with God turning His back on them from the very beginning, predicting their demise as parents! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!