Many people think only certain people abuse children, and this is a common comfort blanket for adults. The fact of the matter is that no adult truly means well in relation to children, as every adult has the capacity to abuse a child.
Every single adult is guilty merely for existing in relation to children, and are to be convicted by God of their original sin, then surrendering to God through their child, surrendering adult power and control over children to their footstool, treating them as if they were royalty, sacrificing for one's children selflessly, taking up the cross for them just like Christ did, rendering themselves beneath your children, devaluing themselves as mere caregivers and servants for their child, leading to good works done for a child, expecting absolutely nothing in return.
I myself was born in original sin as an adult, meaning I am a sexually/behaviorally negligent adult by way of entitlement. Gentle parenting is seen very differently from someone like me. Pedophiles like me hate spanking and always will, meaning I can't ever get angry at a child. I actually, by nature, don't want to set limits, but set them free from all limits, giving them rights before they are ready. Gentle, attached parenting is actually more structured, in a way that some forms of it that rely heavily on logical consequences actually make me feel uncomfortable still, due to their strictness.
I myself am a "coming from" gentle parent, meaning total submission to the child, leading to total acceptance of the child from day one. I just need to learn to be more assertive with children, which gentle parenting tells me how to set limits with children.
I am entitled to nothing as an adult in relation to child, meaning I am deserving of nothing good and everything bad and "disrespectful" from a child, meaning I deserve disrespect from a child until I earn their respect.
I belong in Hell for my capacity to harm children, but am set free from that fate due to my choices in relation to children. Otherwise, I'm gone.
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