Original sin: Why parents and adults have a depraved and entitled adult nature

The teaching of original sin is among the most misused of teachings in the Bible, and has been misused to single out all minorities, and this includes children. Many people think children are born in original sin. Nope, adults were. 

Every single adult is guilty for their mere existence in relation to children, with parents being struck with reverent fear and terror, as denoted by the Greek root word ψοβός (Latin: phobos) and refers to conviction to surrender to God through one's child, giving up all adult power and control to the footstool of children, sacrificing for one's children, meaning taking up the cross for one's children, just as Christ took up the cross for His children, leading to good works for one's child, which is love, which is denoted by the biblical Greek word αγαπαο (Latin: agapao).

The Greek root word cross-referencing the Tenth Commandment is πλεονέκτης (Latin: pleonektés) and refers to parental entitlement, or wanting things from children, or wanting children to do things for you, to the point of seeking to impose said want onto a child, leading to an offense. This word also points to our fallen nature as adults, which is to want things from children, which is called parental entitlement. Parental entitlement is believing "I am a good, well-meaning parent, and so I have the right to respect from my child (and everyone else)" leading to demanding, controlling, punitive, or sexually hateful or objectifying behavior. Entitlement is the core of the sin of adulthood, meaning no adult truly means well around children. 

The concept of mutual submission is based off of a parent admitting his/her depraved sin nature. It says in Colossians 3:20-21 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in all things, as is well-pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they become discouraged.

The Greek root work translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: erethizo) and refers to providing custody, meaning parents provide for children as caregivers and servants, with children resting in the love and grace of parent, being able to be oneself and say anything to parents, without fear of punishment or reprisal, owing nothing in relation to parents, yet nonetheless showing gratitude and thanksgiving by both listening to the reassuring, familiar voice of parents and their loving, disciplined example, but more so the latter. The Greek root word translated "provoke...to anger" is ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) and refers to "stirring up" anger and upset in a child, using the Greek language idiom of "stirring the pot" and refers to the offenses in the Bible, meaning the torts and damages under Eighth Commandment, including assault and battery laws pertaining to children as well as adults. Basically, the slightest of offense perceived by the child, coming from parental entitlement, is abuse, and is sin. Abuse refers here not to the act, but the offenses, meaning any act that shows to offend a child, to the slightest degree, can be used in any way or all ways possible and necessary to convict a parent or other adult of the moral crime of dereliction of parental/custodial duties, meaning child abuse. Anything that offends the child, buy commission or omission, including physical or mental punishments such as spanking, time-out/false imprisonment, or loss of privileges/larceny. 

Parents in the biblical context weren't proud parents, but humble parents with a shamefaced, understated attitude towards their parenting. The word "parent" is found nowhere in the Old Testament, and is found only in the New Testament, in a way that means, in context, that children lead their parents to their needs and benign wants, with babies up to age 3 crying in order to petition the need to be swaddled in mother's bosom, engaging in skin-to-skin closeness with mother. The Greek root word for "parent" is γονεύς (Latin: goneus) and refers to a form of following, meaning children plow ahead and beg the following of their parents, as to what they need. Ancient Jewish culture was attachment parenting culture, meaning surrender to parents means deeming parents as safe people to run to regarding needs, and drag parents to their needs like a ragdoll. Parenting then was not a prideful profession, but a selfless one, where parents listening to reflectively and then validated their child's every need and benign want. Parents were seen as indentured servants to their children, meaning time-slaves, meaning they are paying due penance for their sin nature by giving back to their children, who were seen as vulnerable and kept down by society.

The depraved and entitled parents who provoke children to anger through punitive and permissive parenting will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them burn in the lake of fire and burning sulfur, which is the second death, and is Satan's final resting place! Satan is the source of all abuse in this world! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!