Why anger is not acceptable in parenting under biblical law

Many parents abuse their children, meaning most, with the adults of the world pointing to them in promote format. Most child abuse in this country is not due to pedophilia, but due to anger. Parental entitlement is the most common source of child abuse, in terms of motives, meaning parents and adults want control over children, most of the time expressed in terms of physical/verbal aggression or else sexual aggression (pedophilia). 

Christ said on the Sermon on the Mount, in Matthew 5:21-22 KJV:

Ye have heard it said of them of old time, Thou shalt not kill; and whosoever shall kill shall be in danger of the judgment: But I say unto you, That whosoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment: and whosoever shall say to his brother, Raca, shall be in danger of the council: but whosoever shall say, Thou fool, shall be in danger of hell fire.

Note the underlined. "Without a cause" means that unless you have intent to take your neighbor to court, meaning moral court and not necessarily civil court, being angry to the point of fits of anger is sin. This can mean, in relation to other adults, at the very least and most minutest, whatever the victim/plaintiff perceives as offensive or an offense, signaling entitled intent to control, harass, demand, or beg. Christ's command to "turn the other cheek" (Matt. 5:39-40), however, says to apply Law flexibly and selectively, meaning brush off petty insults from other people, including children. However, children are not subject to the Law, but live under the grace, meaning shelter, of parents, and are merely learning the Law. Therefore, any offense taken against a child is an offense taken against God, for children are in place of God as the "least of these" (Matt. 25:31-46). Parents are not to get angry with their children, or lash out at them, and if they have this habit, they are to struggle against it until it is all gone and subdued. It says in Ephesians 6:1-4 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor thy father and mother, as this is the first commandment with promise, That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live upon the earth. And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath, but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

The Greek root word translated "nurture" is παιδεία (Latin: paideia) and refers to the chastening of the Lord, meaning self-discipline and self-control of an exemplary type by parents, with parents listening to children and validating their every emotion and upset, not being offended or being provoked to fits of anger, but centering that anger by stifling it, setting a disciplined, non-entitled example for children, in a listening manner, responding to a child's every need instead of reacting to behaviors with anger. The Greek root word translated "admonition" is νουθεσία (Latin: nouthesia) and refers to the admonition of the Lord, meaning the word "no" or its various variants, and other forms of setting limits and boundaries. This should be done rarely, and only with both firmness and warmth. This is weighed by the Greek root word translated "provoke...to wrath" is παροργιζο (Latin: parorgizo) and is one of the Greek words in the New Testament that refer to the offenses, meaning the torts and damages under the Eighth Commandment, including assault and battery laws that protected children as well as adults, summed up in the New Testament as the slightest of offense taken against an adult's behavior by a child, on a visceral level determined by sensory gaslighting. This included any sort of physical punishment of children.

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to secure, vulnerable rest and trust in the love and grace of parents, being able to be oneself in relation to parents, sharing anything with them, with children owing absolutely nothing in relation to parents, yet with children nonetheless showing their gratitude for providing custody by listening to the voice of their parents, understanding based on their developmental capacity or lack thereof, leading to children heeding instruction based on the comfort and familiarity of their parents' voice, by way of voice imprinting and not fear of punishment. This is done by way of Christian love denoted by the Greek root word αγαπαο (Latin: agapao) and refers to conviction of one's depraved and wicked sin nature in relation to children, leading to surrender of one's power and control over children to their footstool, submitting to God through your child and their every need as an enemy, just as mankind is the enemy of God, and submits, paying due penance for Him. Parents are to sacrifice for their children just as Christ sacrificed for His children, rendering oneself beneath one's child, devaluing oneself to that level as a parent, teaching your children from that level, with children in place of God, expecting absolutely nothing in return from children.

Attachment parenting was the norm in ancient Israel and adjoining churches, meaning children up to age 3 were swaddled next to mothers, and older children played in range next to mothers, being called back simply by her soothing, reassuring voice, and not any threat of punishment. Punishment against anyone was illegal under Jewish law outside of proper due process, including imposing any anger on another person. Children could not stand trial for a moral crime under Jewish law because they were deemed legally illiterate and incompetent, meaning they had to be taught the Law first, then be liable to it. Anger was seen in the Early Church as a man's righteous judgment, and otherwise was to be centered and forgotten, presuming innocence in one's neighbor, beyond a reasonable doubt, and children regardless.

The depraved and entitled parents will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them burn and rot in the lake of burning sulfur, which is the second death prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!