Why adults were born in original sin

The doctrine of original sin is the most misunderstood of all Christian teachings, despite being the core teaching and backbone of Christian theology. We as trauma survivors are searching, like a searchlight in the early morning hours, for the one guilty of plundering us lawfully and calling the "breather beforehand" some sick form of "love". When you find your abuser in yourself, it can be liberating, knowing you are at fault and not every single parent or adult other than you. I hate all parents because I am one of them, meaning of us unsung, implied parents.

Rarely do I label myself as the parent/pedophile that I am, because "parent" is a swear word in my view, with focus on "swear". Parenting is holy to the point where you don't brag about being a parent. I usually drop the "parent" side of the label out of humility for being wired like a parent, baring my weaknesses and flaws as a parent to all to judge. Pro-social vulnerability. Usually, in real life, I label myself nothing in relation to children, and just do what is expected as an adult in relation to her.

One word in the New Testament refers to original sin, meaning the sinful nature that all of us have towards children. That word is πλεονέκτης (Latin: pleonektés) and refers, as an extension, to mankind's wicked nature in relation to God, expanding upon the Tenth Commandment. All human beings were born with wicked and evil traits of some sort, and all parents are conflated with something depraved...Children are capable of anything, but since they do not know morals yet, presumably, they are not culpable for anything they do, and should instead simply be taught, meaning lectured. 

The Tenth Commandment states in Exodus 20:17 KJV:

Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's house. Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor anything that is thy neigbbour's.

The Greek root word translated "covet" is למחוד (Latin: pleonektés) and refers not to wanting things from children, but wanting things to the point of seeking to impose said want onto a child, in the form of theft/abuse, with abuse being the visceral offense or emotional damages imposed by the adult (Col. 3:21; Eph. 6:4). 

Want from children is original sin, and this doesn't just mean sexual desire, but any type of want from a child. This is inferred in the biblical definition of child obedience. It says on Colossians 3:20 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in all things, as is well-pleasing unto the Lord.

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to parents resting securely in the care, support, and protection, owing nothing in return to parents, but nonetheless being cooperative with them anyway, with parents being commanded to love their child, meaning sacrifice for the needs of their child just as Christ sacrificed for His children, rendering oneself lower and and more shamefaced than one's child, being convicted of having a depraved nature leading to parenting imperfection, expecting absolutely nothing in return. The Greek root word denoting Christian love is αγαπαο (Latin: agapao).

Parents should be perfect. This doesn't mean you will be in this world, but that you should strive to be perfect, knowing you will never get there in this world, but only the next. The only true perfect parent that walked the earth was Jesus Christ, who was without sin. All other parents have sin and should atone for it, turning themselves into their child, and paying penance for their sins against their child, past, present, and future.

The depraved, willfully imperfect parents who provoke children to anger will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!