Religious abuse against pedophiles - Understanding the hatred of pedophiles

 Who hates pedophiles? All of society when in the public sphere, and when in the private sphere, the purity police going around putting chastity belts on pedophiles on one end, and their daughters on the others, taking a domestic abuse worldview towards both sides. This is anti-pedophile prejudice, and pedophiles are just as kept down as children, but due to the remote nature of the pedophilic condition, the hatred of children is simply more visible.

What is the center of religious abuse against pedophiles? "Cure". Religious abuse, as a whole, either serves to "convert" or "cure". "Cure" the pedophile by "converting" them to spiritually abusive beliefs that are shaming towards their sexuality, such as being punished for engaging in sexual fantasy. The feigned pedophile organization GirlChat still prohibits their members from sexual fantasy "until the last day". 

"Cure" gaslighting is the most central form of pedophile hatred, and it is often internalized by even individual pedophiles. The most common and rudimentary way to abuse pedophiles spiritually is telling them to "pray it away". Prayer is always a good thing when individually sought out, but can be abuse when forced or duped. "duped" means some teenage and young adult pedophiles might be so desparate that they'd surely pray it away - and when it came back, either stop believing in God (the majority of pedophiles) or else take out the frustration out on a child in the form of sexual assault or rape, making the choice to be around children while in that unstable state. It is a documented profiling fact that most active pedophilic sex offenders have trauma so severe from childhood that they wish to be dead, more so than be alive. Some pedophiles might be that way, and instead repel from children entirely, wanting to die nonetheless due to loneliness and harming the children they love, who they avoid because they love them...They don't recognize the goodness in themselves. I never got THAT concerned about my own risk to children. I just up and atom, and wait for the child to cue me to speak to her, as my Christian faith convicts me.

There are many places where a pedophile can be the victim of "cure" gaslighting, and that often includes with a mental health professional. Christian counselors often falsely teach that "belief in Christ alone" will cure you of "that aberration". Sometimes, the pedophilia ends up completely repressed, and then they falsely celebrate - because it always comes back, as pedophilia is a lifelong disorder, and then they completely break down, and without peer support, they usually end their life or take one in hindsight. 

We at children's rights do not act "in expert mode" about this disorder, unlike what our reputation may say about us.. We do not believe there is a cure for pedophilia. We want them to be who they are, just like any group, but don't know yet as a group how to give that to them. For most advocates here, they are forced into tough love positions, but will be warm and caring even about a self-diagnosis of pedophilia if they do work to fit in to the community. An adult never changes their stripes on their uniform, and hardliners like me here are hard on everyone, not just pedophiles. ALL adults oppress children, so when you say "I am the adult" in an angry message to me as an excuse for abuse, that's the last time you'll hear from me. I make ALL adults tow the line on these issues, especially spanking/punishment of children, but am easy on pedophiles due to the link between sexual abuse and adult insecurity and self-destructive attitudes in perpetrators. Their narcissist is one that wishes death on themselves, and correction on their child, often citing "impurity" in the child, usually a teenage girl. The rest of the adults don't get a break, because they don't share that victimhood, yet cause victimhood in children which exists in plain sight. Most sexual abusers who aren't pedophiles are the proud, sleazy type of guy. Think pornography poster. Think mancave. Think pouting fists. Think "terrorism". Or, think sex addiction that includes teenagers - a hidden one, meaning a giant slab in the forehead. These abusers are the first ones to jump on the anti-pedophile brigade as an outside appearance, meaning to me, they are the enemy, and children's rights already allies themselves with me on this fight indirectly by stating their stake in the fight against the abusers while allowing me to state mine.

Admit to me "I am a pedophile" and you are good. "I am" next to "pedophile" means victim, particularly in a teary context. I don't think anyone who would admit that would be an abuser, or if they were, it could be resolved before it getting to the legal system, as was the case with every victim except one. An abusive use of the word "pedophile" instead is followed by "you are" in projectory format. When the abusers call me that, I just laugh dismissively and say calmly "yep, I am", then folding my arms. 3 out of 4 pedophiles are not sexual abusers, with most pedophiles believing in youth rights, meaning an actual pedophile is actually less likely to abuse, and this is because most all have not internalized society's controlling and authoritarian views of children. Most remain hidden, and very few submit for study willingly to children's rights researchers, largely due to the stigma of having both an open page and a boss that pays you at the end of the week.

Pedophilia will never be a curable mental illness. The correct term for my disorder is "remission". That means you know the facts about sexual abuse, and know it is wrong to do it to a child. We've earned our rights as pedophilic adults, even if you haven't as a non-pedophilic parent who punishes and controls their children. We pedophiles have earned our rights in relation to children by not abusing them and now demanding from them, denying our nature. Why is the therapist off-duty? Why does the therapist want to encourage thought repression? Just let those thoughts go fly by, and maybe indulge in them to center them through practice. Rights in relation to children are earned, but when you give up your core drive to hurt them, you cease entitlement. We have mental health rights as individuals with pedophilic disorder, meaning treatment and support akin to any mental health disorder. There is no cure, and never will be - focus on preventing abuse with us, including gentle reparenting for pedophiles, such as listening and validation to voiced problems to a therapist.