Pro-social self-crucifixion - Surrendering your prowess to the child's bench

Many parents think they have authority and power over their child. Communities and society in general prop up parents as the "one true authority" over children, ordering them around like pawns and punishing them when they don't do what parents want them to do. That is not what it means to be a parent, hence why the anti-parent authorities here at children's rights name. We surrender ourselves to children as adults, in the lowest, deepest way, when becoming non-entitlement. I am an extension of Christ in relation to a child, with her being an extension of God.

Every single adult is guilty for their existence in relation to children, and is to submit to their needs/wants as an enemy, just as mankind is the enemy of God, and must admit entitlement in relation to Him, knowing nothing about Him apart from our earthly imagination, knowing one's risk of harm to children, leading to care and protection of a child in the form of being their servant. The Greek root word αγαπαο (Latin: agapao) and refers to sacrificing for one's child like Christ sacrificed for His church, taking up the cross, serving the needs of your child from a level lower than your child, without expecting anything in return, showing shamefaced, reverent, and understated gratitude for your child.

It is seeing the child as a judge of your every action towards them or around them, namely the actions that make your child feel unsafe. Surrender your authority to the bench of your child's court, admitting ignorance, capacity, and culpability for being an adult in relation to children, even if only that, because all adults are collectively responsible for the child abuse epidemic, and have oppressed and hated children since time immemorial.

The Bible, as a whole, teaches mutual submission between parent and child, with it saying in Colossians 3:20-21 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in all things, as is well-pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they become discouraged.

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to secure trust and rest in the love and grace of parents, with this actually being a commandment for parents, This deep trust and fondness comes from the self-sacrificial and self-crucifying attitudes and actions towards children from parents. It is being safe and secure enough to share everything with parents, with the loving light of parents shining through you to notice and forgive your every flaw, allowing you to be pro-social honest with parents as well. I am grateful to have a mother like this, and to have a father that converted to that type of relationship with me before his death. I can say anything to my mother, even about mental health struggles most people wouldn't understand, and she'll listen in a pro-social ignorance manner, meaning she claims not to know how I feel, because you never know how your child actually feels. You ask and then listen. Surrender to parents means surrender information and trust surrounding your identity as their child to them, out of trust that one would never get punished for anything they said, at all.

Parenting in the biblical context was attachment-based, meaning mothers especially were attendant to their children, with even older children being held on her back by a papoose bag, and otherwise playing freely while ranging close to the mother. Punishment was illegal then apart from within a courtroom setting, and administered against an adult. Punishing a child was instead seen as a form of entitlement, denoted by the Greek root word translated πλεονέκτης (Latin: pleonektés) and refers to wanting things from a child to the point of seeking to impose said want on a child, leading to theft/abuse, meaning legal damages. Many words denote damages in the New Testament, and one is ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) and is translated "provoke...to anger" in vs. 21. Damages include the slightest of personal slights perceived by the child. Children in the Early Christian churches, when abused by their father, reported to their mother, in which case such a divorce signaled for the whole parish to excommunicate and shun the abusive father.

The depraved and entitled parents who provoke children to anger will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them rot and burn in the ever-lasting lake of burning fire and sulfur, having no hope, using up their every last warning from children's rights! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!