Understanding fantasy rights: Why the cause refers to proven psychological methods for stress

A lot of people have heard of the Virtuous Pedophiles community by now. Things are improving for pedophiles. Before 2012, virtually nobody knew that non-offending pedophiles existed unless they had a certain children's rights clearance. Now, the information is out in the open. "Fantasy rights" for those who remember the 1990s, is far more conservative today than it was then...Many times, with life-threatening problems, one simple defense can save lives. In this case, pedophiles who go on to abusing a child sexually are often coddled, with the assumption being that "they can't help it". Not true, at all, and an insulting excuse for me as a non-offending pedophile who proudly can help it.

I myself have a corporal punishment existence trauma. "Existence" refers to a specific level - predation, which in turn refers to sexual. I am drawn TO my triggers. I myself was in a McDonald's here in Berks County, and witnessed a case of parental battery against a child. A young girl. I won't describe her, because I do have enemies that will use narrow down techniques to warn her parents or the child herself. I was triggered by seeing a young girl spanked, but in an angry way that made no sense. I started planning a fantasy instead, once I got home, and hastened to leave the establishment. That was the route I took in dealing with such an issue.

It was like emptying trash into a wastebasket, meaning after orgasm, I cried and teared up, then accepting I could do nothing about the situation, which I had no way of doing anyway without causing further disruption than the event already did...We are pretty liberal here about the spanking issue, when it comes to controlling children in public with force.

There are very few trauma survivors that are anti-fantasy, contrary to popular belief. Think a wall in an apartment building. Your neighbor plays loud death metal, and you just tolerate it, liking country instead. You're tolerant that they wife-swap on weekends when you are a conservative Christian, and you are nice to them the few times you speak. It's like that here, in relation to VirPed. 

Most opposition to pedophile fantasy comes from religious organizations that shame men into a toxic mold, with legalistic interpretations of the commandment not to "look in lust" at a woman, which was intended directly to protect a married woman from visible defended intent of idolatry. What is also dangerous is the doctrine of predestination directed towards young pedophiles, who then see the news and say "could this be me?" as a rhetorical question, meaning they were terrified that they would "end up" abusing a child, turning their aggression onto themselves. 

Most pedophiles are bystanders by nature, meaning they side with the child while viewing a child-parent exchange. An attractive child might be spanked, triggering a brick to form. This might happen within a home, with the parent being haunted with spiritually abusive beliefs that they are not to think anything about children sexually, or they will go to Hell. Many therapists react similarly to pastors and clergy, and may issue snap bands for certain individuals. 

In order to know how to deal with the thoughts correctly, you must understand their conflation with stress. This isn't an excuse, as abuse can easily be avoided. Just let the thoughts flow by, notice them, perhaps label them, and watch them fly by, then move on with life. That's what I do. I can actually now, if I need to, talk to a young girl without wanting anything in return.

What I did was "want" avoidance, meaning in this case following the command of 1 Thess 5:22 in which case being in any situation close to where the temptation of evil to appear must be avoided. It was locational avoidance, and speech avoidance, of children, but mostly speech avoidance. It was motive tracking as well, meaning if I ask to go visit someone's house just because a child I like is there, I am going on unlawful self-interest, unless there is another reason, such as the visit was planned by my mother. Generally, I don't visit any child's house without an invitation...Ultimately, though, it is being versed in the Christian theology that children owe me nothing, and that I should beg nothing.

But, ultimately, many sexual assaults and rapes against children happen where there are two unclear options when you get a brick, try the child or try the hand. In my case, sexual fantasy is the clear option, but that's because I don't hold spiritually abusive beliefs that silence my every sexual thought. I can also just not be left alone with a child, so there's no excuse there either.

Sometimes, just adding another choice, no matter how ridiculous it may sound, may stop a sexually entitled adult from abusing.