"Guilty until proven innocent" - Why we adults should hold ourselves to a higher standard

 Many parents love themselves, and hate their children, while being the "worry" narcissists that they are. Most child abuse in America is committed by "well-meaning parents", usually entitled traumatics repeating the mistakes their parents made, with "entitled" referring to a burger sandwiched between buns of anger and then ignored pain and anguish. It is basically a strand strangulating the child, usually out of understandable "worries" such as the child getting hurt, and so forth. It is easy to side with the parent, even while treating them once they come forward for treatment. A "worry" narcissist is a parent who thinks they are right in punishing a child physically for riding a bicycle in a busy street (to use an example from my own upbringing). But, what if I am wrong as an adult? When doing something major in terms of setting limits, I want to be wrong about my abuser, and right about myself, when it comes to where the abuser is. I know 100% that I am capable of harm towards children, by way of being a human adult.

It says in John 7:24 KJV:

Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.

Part of righteous judgment is self-judgment. The Greek root word translated both "judge" and "judgment" is κρινο (Latin: krino) and refers to circular courtroom judgment, meaning the presumption of innocence, beyond a reasonable doubt, with due suspicion "beyond what the eye can see". Righteous self-judgment is the reverse, meaning adults are guilty around children, in terms of motives to themselves, until proven innocence beyond a reasonable doubt. I myself can only be exonerated by the testimony of one individual...the child themselves.

As a pedophilic adult, I am to presume the worst of my motives, and believe nothing good about my motives in relation to a child, until proven otherwise when proven by the child, meaning how safe a child feels around me. I do not take advice from other adults as to if I am safe with children, but take it into account. The individual with the final say is the child, as I am her property as her abuser, and I am her abuser by way of being an adult.

I am evil, and the scum of the earth, merely for existing in relation to children. They have every right to hate me, and I'm sure they have no time for me. They have their own lives, and go their own way separate from adult, and I surrender to their rights and needs in this regard. I have given up my authority over children, and what a refresher course it was - not being the evil parents you grew up with. Pedophilia, in terms of intergenerational cycles, is about doing the opposite of your abusive parents, perhaps to a fault. I myself struggle with tendencies of sexual/behavioral neglect, and that's usually caused by being too convicted by a child's presence, and literally being afraid of saying "no". Now, I can say "no" but bring myself to punish or control (I have no control over them, at all - no anger either), and it was about demanding nothing from children, and thus caring a little less about having to speak uncomfortable truths to them.

All adults need to second-guess their wants in relation to children. Entitlement is denoted by the Greek root word πλεονεκτης (Latin: pleonektés) and refers not only to wanting things from children, but wanting things to the point of seeking to impose said want onto a child, leading to theft/abuse. The question is whether you are right in having that want towards another person, meaning do you really mean well in wanting that, and what would be the outcome of that want? I might want a child to snuggle with me, but what is my intent behind that? Is it simply paternal closeness, or something more? I might snuggle with a young girl to feed unlawful attraction, perhaps slipping a hand under her shirt (on her back), etc. Hence why I am not friends with any teenager girl I once knew...Just need to know that she's set a boundary there, and NOT let me due to her own autopedophilic attraction. Autopedophilia is not sin in a young girl, or a young boy like I was - the adult is always responsible. So she dresses a certain way that is revealing and showy, or likes to show off by darting across the house in underwear or even less? Just deal with it. They owe you nothing, and you owe them everything as to respect for their bodily autonomy, as taking advantage of a situation would be adult sexual entitlement and would be sexual abuse of a child...You may be able to relate, as a non-pedophilic adult, with childhood behaviors that drive most adults nuts (but I find endearing, in fact) such as running down aisles in the store, perhaps screaming as well. Just deal with it. Childhood is supposed to be full of energy, in a way that is defined by the child herself. Adults should be shut up and silent around children, looking down and feeling guilty, in a reverent way towards their existence.