Understanding the Fifth Commandment

 Most American parents expect their children to listen and not talk back. Some of us have REAL parents, meaning not the identified parents that I often slur and decry as the entitled spoogs and specks that punish and control children. I honor and respect my mother, not because I fear her, but the complete opposite - she earned it.

The Fifth Commandment is stated in Exodus 20:17 KJV:

Honour thy father and mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee.

This refers to the concept of family honor, meaning I as a Christian am a representative of my family. Trauma is a sign that points to the parents or other similarly charged adult, and trauma isn't always vulnerable and pitiful. I would be misusing my trauma by acting on my pedophilic desires, and that would indicate that a parent imposed a trauma, thus "the apple doesn't fall far from the tree".

It says in Ephesians 6:1-4 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honour thy father and mother; which is the first commandment with promise; That is may be well with thee. And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath, but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

The Greek root word translated "parents" is γονεύς (Latin: goneus) and refers not to a ruler, but a servant, an attendant to your child, serving their every vulnerable need, from beneath yet from above, guiding the child to what they need, from a humble position of surrender to said needs. The Greek root word υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to surrender from the child that reciprocates the loving surrender of parents to their child's needs. 

The Greek root word translated "nurture" is παιδεία (Latin: paideia) and refers to discipline, meaning self-control and self-regulation, which is modeled to children in the form of co-regulation to children, where the more discipline you are as a parent, the more disciplined your child is, with the Greek root word translated "provoke...to wrath" is παροργίζω (Latin: parogizo) and refers to damages, namely harm to the child such as pain, shame, emotional distress, loss of property/tokens, and/or fornication. The Greek root word denoting "admonition" is νουθεσια (Latin: admonition) and refers to verbal correction, gently but firmly informing children of the wrongfulness of their actions, and explaining to them why their behavior was not okay, being realistic as to developmental level. The word "no" is basically what this word refers to, and that word can be paraphrased in many different ways.

Parenting then was attachment-based to the core, but in a specific way that is first-to-last in nature, meaning instead of the parent leading the child to their needs, it was the reverse - the child advocated their needs, and parents, especially mothers, followed the lawful order, and surrendered to the child's needs, with the child being in providing custody. Custody of children under Jewish law was not based on control over the child as a subject of legalistic treatment, like in our legal system, but based on duties of the parent to provide for their child's every need. Parental rights did not exist then. Only parental duties existed...This is how my mother parents, meaning all parents should be selfless like that. I tend to emulate her patience with children. 

The depraved, entitled parents who provoke children to anger will BURN! Let them suffer in torrents of fire and rage that is Divine Wrath. Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!