Why I hate ALL parents: Attachment research

Many here do not understand my parent-hatred, even though they share it to a much lower level. I am a non-conforming parent, a pedophile, meaning a sexually controlling parent. I am naturally biased in that I am nicer to parents/pedophiles, meaning I can understand and humanize their struggles better, meaning better than most people here. It is all about attachment, as parenting is all about attachment.

There are two main types of parents, judged by sin nature:

1. Physically controlling parents (98-99% of parents)
2. Pedophiles/sexually controlling parents (1-2% of parents)

I was abused by the former, meaning #1 in the list, and went in the other direction. Why? Genetic conditioning. I went in the other direction, meaning I was permissive with children - think antisocial "allowance"/"defense". That means not setting limits at all, and if anyone would step in in that regard, I'd shout them down.

Pedophiles are different than ordinary parents in terms of levels. Pedophiles are sexually entitled adults, with sexuality in and of itself being a low-level entitlement, and pedophilia being about the lowest of sexualities out there - meaning we have free will not to abuse a child, at all. We are centered at the peacekeeper level, meaning we have learned to have full self-control. Everything in life feels like a decision or choice, not any form of drifting instinct. This is actually how most pedophiles feel, to the extreme. We have a will of our own, and some stereotypes are accurate - but think more polite, meaning not caving when someone keeps calling you names or abusing you. Let it roll off. I was slammed by some depraved spoogs at Foursquare. It was living Hell, but it now just rolls off my back.

Physically controlling parents control at a higher level, that is more visible to the child, in fact, and often experienced by the child, even when unintended. I would never "accidentally" rape a child, because no such thing exists. I don't like how you were formed, at all, you entitled spoog, wanting to punish a child like that. I might well be grateful that you are now in gentle parenting boot camp, as I might liken a gentle parenting reformation to one of a sex offender, in terms of levels of morality. I do think sexual abuse is very bad like I say about spanking, but I know more about how to prevent it, and prevent it every day by having my life setup the way it is.

They all are evil, alongside all adults in relation to children. We use the anti-parent system these days, and not the anti-pedophile system, because most perpetrators play the role of parent in the child's life, and a false one due to being a braggart at being one. Don't brag all the time about being a "proud parent" - think pitchforks and an angry mob in front of the courthouse, knowing "we will not be vilified for disciplining our children" - You type something like that here, you're gone. I am prepared for my abuser being everywhere, and anywhere in sight, but presume them to be nowhere in sight because they are that scary. But, it is a parental rights trauma, meaning simple wordage changes don't change a think if I know what you mean. Just write what you want, and I'll be judge and jury, and as long as you have empathy for children enough to oppose punishment and control of children of any kind, you have nothing to worry about from me. Past mistakes? We all have them, including me...But I hate them all, the sheer ability to overpower and corner a child. Think about what I find obvious - parents in this country have total control over their child. I realized that as young as age 3. That's terrifying, given I was spanked and punished like most parents in this country.

Sorry, I like pedophiles better, but don't like those cords either. The people seem like they are ready to move on from child hatred, or at least the bulk of pedophiles. Pedophiles first, parents last - in that order, of adults admitting their power and privilege over children. It's like you're the CEO, or the police chief, to them. Sometimes, that's the case literally. But, ALL children view their parents in that light, when they are distant and punitive.