My favorite statement. I can't help you as a parent if you don't want help. They never do. I'm THAT type of help-oriented pedophile. I don't want to help you, because I assume either you don't want help or that you would be offended by it if I pushed it on you. Antisocial "help" with a child would be self-applied and conflated with the child's "comfort" needs, usually in a perceived close friendship. I don't "look people up" simply to "hook up". I might look someone up in an abusive state just to be friends, and when I feel closer and closer to your child, I start grabbing them and trying to snuggle with them in a clingy way, with them usually pushing me off, with me fixated on them and their warmth. She's like mom, meaning in place of mom. Like a babysitter.
The moral of the "bright" depictions of my condition is that abusers can appear "benign" and "well-meaning" towards children, but nonetheless be dangerous. I could possibly kill a child if I went too far down the line from nowhere...My parents were well-meaning, yet abused me within the law through spanking, time-out, loss of privileges, and other forms of punishment and control. I myself turned out to be a pedophile, and so I went in the other direction - permissive, in the form of sexual/behavioral neglect.
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